Bachelorette Party with no Bridal Party

If you want a bachelorette, why not tell etiquette where to go and do gifted days to each other.

FH "organises" (well, appears to have) a nice day out for you and your girls.

You sort out a day at the track for him and his friends.

It's not strictly a bachelorette done in the traditional way, more of a "I get to spend the rest of my life with you so here's a day when your friends get you all to themselves."

I think that's a great idea. Defintely do that

I know several gals that didn't have a bridal party but still had bridal showers and bachelorette parties. It is becoming more common to not have a bridal party. I wouldn't have FH organize it but rather your girl friends if they've offered.

I planned my bachelorette party, FH and I are having a joint bachelor/bachelorette soiree, we rented a party bus and invited my BMs and some other girls and their dates to ride around and hang out with us. No one thought it was weird or rude that I did the planning, maybe because it's a joint event. I would just figure out what you want to do and send invite your girls!

@alejandra I plan to throw my own bachlorette party. None of my friends have the funds or interest in throwing me a party.

Thanks for the different ideas I will talk to FH and see what we come up with. I'd really like just a day spent with my friends but they don't all know eachother so it's best if I at least do some of the planning and ask one of them to be in charge of collecting the rsvps.

I don't think it's rude/against etiquette to throw your own bachelorette party. It is rude/against etiquette to throw your own bridal shower however, where gifts/registries are involved.

I'm so glad you posted this. I don't have a bridal party or any close gf and still wanted to celebrate but thought it would be against etiquette to plan something for myself.