I need some advice, I am feeling like a bummed out bride. My wedding is a little over a month away and I was looking forward to the events like a Bridal Shower and Bachelorette party and just spending time with friends, but it seems that everyone in my bridal party has decided that they can't spend any money to even celebrate and while I understand it is kinda dampening the mood. I was feeling fine until my fiancé started telling me all about what his groomsmen have planned. Have any other brides went through similar situations/what did you do? I don't want to sound whiny because I would be fine with a girls night in, but even that seems like to much of a hassle.