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Bachelorette party attendees.

Jessica, on July 22, 2019 at 9:34 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4

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Hey everyone!

So I’m having a DW in Las Vegas and that’s also where I will be having my bachelorette a couple months ahead of time.

I originally wanted it just to be my bridal party (3) because I wanted it to be an intimate experience but ended up asking if two additional friends who have small rolls in the wedding could also join in on the fun.

Well now, one of the two add has been asking why I am not inviting additional people to the bachelorette party. And I have explained that I’m only inviting members of my bridal party but she was still pressuring me.

No tickets have been purchased and now I’m considering having a small dinner and dancing evening here and going with my original 3 to Vegas. I don’t know what to do!

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Latest activity by Sinéad, on July 24, 2019 at 8:11 AM

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Kelly · on July 22, 2019 at 9:38 AM
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I feel like once you mentioned it you can't unmention it. But nobody should be pressuring you to invite anyone you don't want there. Stick to your guns and tell them no
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Jessica · on July 22, 2019 at 9:43 AM
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I did tell them no I appreciate your response.
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Jolie · on July 23, 2019 at 2:52 PM
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I kind of am in that situation as well. I invited my bridal party and two other girls. The one was like it's Vegas we gotta go to a strip club! I said I wasn't really into it. But wanted to be like um you're not even in the bridal party and I didn't dictate what we should do at your bachelorette when I was invited as an extra guest? Funny. Well all you can do is say no and just be like sorry it's meant for the bridal party and the two of you who I specifically asked. And say you want to keep it small. Your trip sounds like it'll be fun! I have had a lot of frustration planning our trip because the guys are going too and I am basically coordinating it all. So I am doing what I want there so that it was worth the stress lol, and the bridal party will help pick the activities to do.
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Sinéad · on July 24, 2019 at 8:11 AM
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Hey Jessica! Congratulations on your engagement! A Vegas bachelorette sounds like so much fun!!
I’m happy that you found a resolution and stuck to your original plan. You will have the most wonderful time with your intimate group of friends!!
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