Bachelorette awkwardness

I think it's etiquette for then to pay for what they offer to pay. If they're not offering, I would not ask.

You are not entitled to a bachelorette party, nor are they obligated to pay your way if they do plan one for you.

I am paying for my flight and part of the house. It was nice enough of them to plan a trip I didn't expect anything more.

While I agree with BlueHen. I also think its fair to ask what the price is and tell them if you cannot afford it.

Be grateful. I paid for my flight and my girls covered my hotel stay. FH had to pay for both his flight and hotel stay. You're having a destination bachelorette party so they're already spending a lot. You take what they offer and nothing more.

Did you agree to a bachelorette party that would entail travel costs?

It's OK to ask the price but definitely don't ask them to pay.

The bride should always be prepared to pay for herself, but out of generosity friends will usually buy the bride's dinner and drinks for the night. Now when we're talking about plane tickets and hotel, that's no longer a party expense, it's a personal expense where each person pays for herself.

Have an awesome time and make (and forget) some great memories!

If you can't afford tell them that and maybe you guys can do something more affordable that doesn't entail travel. But don't ask them to pay for you.

When is your party? This seems like it should been taken care of prior to now. I think you need to ask what the price is. It is a nice gesture for people to pay for the dinner and drinks but not required. I have never heard of free travel or hotel for the bride.

Thanks everyone! Glad I asked!

I would pay my own way the hostess will probably be covering a whole lot of other things that you may not have to pay for.

For all my friends' bachelorette parties, the bride has paid for her flight and the girls attending cover everything else. But if they aren't offering, I certainly wouldn't ask them to pick up the tab!