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Jennifer
Savvy September 2018

Bachelor party weekend and one of my fiancé’s friend is mad at me

Jennifer, on August 19, 2018 at 4:21 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 13
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So my fiancé left for his bachelor party on Thursday. I’ve been giving him space, only texting when he texts me, phone calls when he calls me. He’s been sure to call me every night to say good night. Well my fiancé never texted me or called me tonight. I decided to give him a call and tell him goodnight and check up on him. This was my FIRST time calling him! My fiancé answered the phone and I hear his friend saying “she needs to leave you alone, this is your bachelor party, this is unhealthy for y’all!”. WOW, needless to say my fiancé told him to shut up and that everything was fine. The friend is completely drunk right now and started making a scene. Everyone had to calm him down. Now I feel a little bad about calling bc of how the friend reacted, I know it made my fiancé upset. It was the first time I’ve called and I know I wouldn’t be able to sleep without saying goodnight to my fiancé. I just needed to vent and whatever else. Smh I’m so annoyed right now. I feel like he blew things out of proportion.

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on August 21, 2018 at 1:52 AM
  • Nicole
    VIP November 2017
    Nicole ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it. As long as your fiance was ok with it, it's fine. They will all continue to enjoy their night and the rest of their weekend. Don't worry about what his friend said. He's not the one you are marrying.
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  • c
    Super May 2019
    c ·
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    I would let it go. They are obviously drunk/drinking and the potential to say or do something really dumb is high. I wouldn’t dwell on it.
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  • A
    Expert January 2019
    Anakaren ·
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    Don’t feel bad you didn’t do anything wrong it’s ok to give your fiancé a call before bed time to make sure he’s fine , as for the drunk friend just ignore him .
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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
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    Drunk friend is probably jealous or upset he’s not getting the call or it’s not his bachelor party lol. Don’t worry about it. As long as FH was fine with the call.
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  • M.M.
    Devoted December 2018
    M.M. ·
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    I wouldn’t worry about it. Your FH wasn’t upset with you. The friend is probably jealous he doesn’t have someone caring in his life.

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  • queenbee
    VIP October 2018
    queenbee ·
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    Wow what an overreaction from his friend! I would have done the same thing, called quick if I hadn’t heard from him. Definitely don’t feel bad about it, it’s not your fault he freaked out. I also plan on leaving my FH alone as much as possible while he’s at his bachelor party.
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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    I would have called too. Him being drunk.is probably why he overreacted. Hopefully he does not normally act this way. If he does not id let it go for now
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  • MIWM
    VIP June 2019
    MIWM ·
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    I would just let it go. The alcohol got the best of him.

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  • Vanessasaurus
    VIP June 2019
    Vanessasaurus ·
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    You weren't wrong at all! This is what signing up for marriage includes, having someone who genuinely cares about you and checks up on you (bachelor party or not!)
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    Alcohol makes people say stupid stuff. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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  • V
    Super April 2019
    Valerie ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it, but I also wouldn't have called or expected a call every night. If he is having a weekend away with the boys, i let him have it and know that he'll call me if he needs anything otherwise I'll see him in a few days. The friend is probably feeling a little of 'why does he have to call every day!? This is my weekend!' and in his drunken state just came out as 'drunk blah blah drunk'. They are guys, they will yell at each other twice, drink another beer and then be fine. I guarentee you are the only one still thinking about it.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I wouldn't feel bad. My fiance calls me every night and sends me a couple texts and snapchats throughout the day regardless if he's on a boy's trip or not. I don't think it's up to a drunk groomsman to determine how healthy your relationship is.

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  • Jennifer
    Savvy September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Thanks for making me feel better! The guy ended up apologizing the next day lol so awkward but whatever
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