I love babies but I’ve never had baby fever. I get asked a lot when or if we are gonna have babies and I say no. Or at least not til a while. It’s kind of something where we like our dynamic as a couple now before we bring someone else into the world.
Our daughter is 5 and sometimes I get a glimpse of baby fever but nope lol we are good—
I had baby fever pretty bad at one point...and now I have a 7 month old daughter. We actually postponed our wedding for her arrival, and now we have to postpone it again because of COVID-19. But I love my liddo baby
Enjoy your time alone while you can trust me. They are a blessing and you’ll be so grateful for them once there hear but being pregnant is hard and not being able to just get up and go or have have random adventures definitely changed things. I have never regretted my baby and I am so thankful I was even able to have one but I do miss the days when it was just us at times.
I get baby fever allllll the time but truthfully my FH always hits me with some perspective because although we are financially and emotionally stable, we need to see the whole picture and just how much dedication and work a baby is and we are loving our dynamic as an engaged couple right now.
It was really hard watching friends have babies because I had it bad but wanted to be married first. We got married last may (mothers day weekend) and i got pregnant 2w later! This year I get to have mothers day then our 1st wedding anniversary a day later! Lol
I've had baby fever for YEARS. As in, my managers at work would *vouch for me* when my regular tables (I work at a restaurant) would have babies, and I offered to babysit. Started volunteering at a daycare baby fever. Take care of my friends' kids as "auntie" baby fever.
We're married 7 months, now, and we've been trying since January.
You aren't alone.
I can seriously relate. The baby fever has been hitting me hard but I work as a day care teacher to a class of one year olds and I haven't seen them in almost two months so I can't tell if the baby fever is because I miss my kids or if I finally have the time to think and see what I truly want right now. I find myself fantasizing on end these weeks about being pregnant and us having a baby and it makes me so happy. I guess once I go back to work I'll be able to know if my baby fever is because I miss the babies at my job or if I'm ready to have my own family. (I've worked with babies for three years and am an aunt of two and never had baby fever ever)
Good god, can I relate. Not even as far as the wedding is concerned. I've wanted to be a mom since I was 18. Literally, the whole reason we decided to set a date for our wedding was because I feel like I can't stand another three years of waiting for a baby. It's the first step in our action plan to parenthood. My sister just had her second kid and I cried when she told me she was pregnant again because it's something I want so badly.
UGH GIRL YESSS! FH and I have both been having such intense baby fever and with only 2 months away until we are legally married we keep contemplating just trying to conceive now while I'm stuck at home! The only thing that stops us is thinking about having to go in for drs appointments with the world so crazy at the moment, but then sometimes I think it might be worth it?
Our daughter is five.. I go through waves of having Baby fever lol sometimes I’m like PLEASEEEEE I NEED MORE BABIES and others I’m like NOPE it’s nice having just one lol