Awkward invitation situation

She can probably get you their address.

I'd probably invite all of them. If they don't want to come, they won't, but it never hurts to extend the invitation. If you have the space go for it. If you don't, then don't.

I agree with paris but im concerned it might look like a "pitty" invite and be more insulting than if you don't. They should understand that space is limited and haven't talked in a while and who knows if they'll even know their son was there. He may not mention it. Do what your heart says. There's no wrong as far as im concerned.

Girl, stick to the original plan, and allow the one guy to come. Inviting a whole family with a month or so before the wedding doesn't sound ideal unless you have the room for them ... I would stick to my original plan.

White pages? Then it's not awkward if you decide not to invite.

Date twin! I would ask her for their address. I think it would be nice for the whole family to be invited if you have the room for it.

Maybe you can call them and say: I am so sorry that this is last minute but I'd really love to invite you to my upcoming wedding. I wanted to reach out personally because you are long-time friend but I didn't have your address." Or something along those lines. If you just get their address and stick the invitation in the mail, it will seem like a last-minute thing. But if you talk to them, they probably won't be offended. Granted, this is only what I would do if I wanted to invite them.

I agree with the ladies. Just like Paris & M&T said. I would invite & call etc. Because the family been friends for a long time.

I wouldn't feel that I had to invite them. This is how guest lists get out of control.

You don't have to invite them. They weren't on your original list and the fact that their son is dating someone on your guest list doesn't mean you have to invite the whole family to join them...

If you can produce and send the engraved invitations to this family in less than a week's time, then go ahead and do it: better that they know they're welcome at your wedding, even if they don't have the time to show up.