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Savvy August 2019

Awesome venue for reception....but on two floors?

Ann, on May 30, 2018 at 9:18 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 1 5

I've found a venue that I absolutely fell in love with! It's a historical building and it fits in my budget - and it doesn't need a lot of extra decorations because it has beautiful woodwork, wall sconces, fireplaces, etc. However, due to my guest list of 150 people, the venue cannot hold this number of guests AND a dance floor on the same level. Someone suggested that we could hold cocktail hour and the sit-down dinner on the first floor, and then after dinner make an announcement that we will be holding the first dance, toasts, dessert and dancing in the third floor ballroom.

There is an elevator and both floors have handicap accessible bathrooms, so I don't think this would be an issue for anyone with mobility issues. Those who feel comfortable navigating the stairs would go up a grand staircase to the ballroom. Once in the ballroom, we can accommodate seating with tables for 130 guests. (I didn't think to ask, but perhaps we could accommodate extra seats without tables, to ensure enough seating for everyone). I would cut the guest list further as we are sooo close to the 130 guest capacity for the ballroom, but I'm starting to struggle with who to cut at this point.

From what I've read, people dislike two floor receptions when some guests are separated from the action but in this case, we would be "migrating" the party to another floor - not necessarily separating our guests. Thoughts? Part of me thinks it would be neat to lead our guests up the grand staircase to the ballroom for dancing, but maybe this is too weird and disjointed?

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Latest activity by Kristin, on May 31, 2018 at 6:52 AM
  • amandaaok
    VIP June 2018
    amandaaok ·
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    As long as it is easy to get to, I wouldn't mind. And as long as there wouldn't be massive lines for getting up elevator/stairs etc...
    Sounds like a beautiful venue!
    My one question is what would the Dj do? Would he have to set up in one area and then tear down to go to the other? Or 2 djs or?
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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Amandaok had a good point about the DJ. If he does have to break down and set up in the ballroom, expect an additional fee.

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    Savvy August 2019
    Ann ·
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    I'm not sure about the DJ - I still have to research that, but that is a very good point. My thought was to see how much it would cost to hire a harpist or string trio to play background music during dinner and cocktail hour. I honestly have no idea how much either option would cost.
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  • GoodMOB
    April 2018
    GoodMOB ·
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    I think this could work if you all truly migrate to the other floor, and especially if people are informed of this either ahead of time on your wedding website, or when they arrive at the reception venue.

    One thing to think about is, if you have a card/gift table at the dinner, who will watch/transport those gifts so they are not left unattended?

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  • K
    Expert November 2018
    Kristin ·
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    I went to a wedding like this before except the floor with dancing had no seating or at least very little seating if I'm remembering correctly. The ceremony was on the first floor, then cocktail hour and dinner upstairs then back downstairs for dancing (they had removed all the chairs from the ceremony). There were maybe a couple of tall/standing cocktail tables and then a few chairs against the walls. I think your idea will be fine, there will be plenty of seating if people want to grab a seat. I had a great time at that wedding! She had games outside for the non-dancers.
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