OK guys, so we were planning to have a very small church wedding with just our immediate family (siblings and parents + their SOs) it would be about 20 ppl with children on 08/08/2020 and then on 08/22/2020 we were going to have an outdoor ceremony where we exchange vows and then have cocktail hour + dinner/party at our venue. Part of the reason it's on separate days is based on the churches availability, we booked our venue before booking the church part (whoops). But it also worked out in a way because our venue location is really far from the church. So anyway, is this weird? Do you know anyone who has done this?
I personally think it's fine because this way we don't have to bore all our guests with the church ceremony and our guests can witness us exchanging our vows because the church is strict on that so we won't be able to say our own vows and that is something we want to do. SO part of the reason I'm asking is because we might move our wedding and I'm thinking if we should just try to have the church ceremony + cocktail hour/dancing/ dinner @ the venue all in one day or continue with our small church wedding and have our celebration in 2021? Any and all advice is welcomed!!
