At any time after you said yes did you start to question yourself and your relationship

I just hope we grow better together and remain happy. Realistically none of us know the future but I hope we can get through anything. I feel no couples are perfect but you hope you can always be happy.

Not at all. I knew the moment I met him that I'd love him. I knew right after we started dating that I wanted to marry him. 4 years later he proposed and we are trying for a baby. We had discussed marriage repeatedly before he proposed. I have no doubt he's my forever. I think it's important to really know you are in it forever. We lived together for 3.5 years before he proposed, which was very helpful.

Not even a little bit.

No. I was so excited and couldn’t stop thinking about the next chapter in our lives together.

No. I think if you question your relationship..its probably not the right one.

I did, and for the first two months we were engaged I was just plain scared. But for us getting engaged came not long after the biggest fight we had ever had. Circumstances play a big part, and I think it's okay to feel some doubt. I needed time to adjust, and I'm that way with everything. I knew I wanted to marry him three months after we started dating, and I'm so excited and happy now that i've had time to really get used to how my life is going to change.
I guess just listen to yourself, talk to your partner, and if there's a friend or family member or even a therapist you could talk it over with, I bet that would make you feel better. Good luck ❤️

If you have, then I suggest putting planning on hold, going to couples' counseling, and taking a long hard look at what you want.

It's totally normal to question OMG WHAT ARE WE DOING because the planning is so stressful, but if you're questioning why you are with that person? You need to slow down and think.

I thought about our relationship, but i knew cause i was scared. I knew before he proposed to me. My parents are divorced, even though i knew what went wrong in their relationship, i just didn't want to fail. But I was always open with my fh, so he was always quick to comfort me. I think its normal to have these thoughts, i mean marriage is a big deal. Just don't let it linger on. That's when it becomes a problem.

I think everyone has ups and downs. No one is perfect. Better to question while you’re engaged and decide if it’s the right thing to do than wait til something happens and then regret your marriage.

I don't think there's anything wrong with questioning your relationship and whether or not you're with the right person. You're making a BIG decision and it can be life-changing. It's important for you to listen to your head and your heart. And if you think the two of you have some things to discuss or really think about, maybe try to schedule some premarital counseling.

FI and I are in premarital counseling and it's great. The things I had questions about we were able to get out in the open and there were some things we learned about each other that we didn't know so that was really neat, too!

You have to do what you think is right for you, and you I agree with Mrs. Sarantos, that it's better to question things now than to question them AFTER you're married.

Yes. Especially when you can't compromise or you feel you are the one that mostly compromises for the other person. Have you tried counselling together?

I felt super anxious for about a week after I got engaged, and I was not sure why. I practically begged my now fiancée to propose to me already, so I was shocked when I didn’t feel all of the things everyone said I would right after getting engaged. I ended up googling “engagement anxiety” and found some very helpful!! I also talked to a therapist about it who said that being introspective at moments like this (because it is a HUGE decision), and that having anxiety about making a life changing choice and the person your with is more common than you’d think. I recommend looking some stuff up that is written by professionals or people that have gone through this and seen the other side