Assigned seats

You don't have to do anything. Assigning tables is much more convenient for guests. It will also save you money in the long run. It's recommended to provide 20% more tables, chairs, place settings, etc. if you choose to do open seating since guests won't seat themselves efficiently.

It isn't required, but assigning tables makes it a lot easier and more organized. People don't have to worry about where they are going to sit and if there are enough chairs at the table.

I originally didn't plan on doing any sort of assigned seating, but the ladies on here convinced me to do assigned tables. It makes it a lot easier for everyone and you don't run the risk of splitting up groups and chairs being moved around with 10 people squished together at one table while there's a table of 4 with the rest of the chairs moved to other tables.

View Quoted Comment I’m not worried about money since all of the tables, chairs, plates, cups (basically everything for food and drinks) was all included in the venue so we wouldn’t have to rent anything extra. we’d actually have to spend money to either get or make the seating chart but i don’t want it to be inconvenient for anyone either!

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Place cards can be pretty inexpensive. I believe that you should always make the choice that's going to enhance your guest experience, which would be assigning tables, but it's not a necessity.

I'm always on team assigned tables. Creates a bit more order.

I'm going very casual and just having it at a friend's house. Ergo no, I will not be having assigned seating lol. I'm also not having a full sit down dinner either so there is that too.

As someone who's been to a wedding where I knew my FH, the bride and groom, their family, and some of their wedding party, and ended up sitting alone at a table with FH because we went through the buffet line early and were hoping someone would come join us - please assign tables.

I think it’s more a personal choice to each bride. FH and I aren’t having one either. It’s too much work, plus people are going to move around anyway to sit where they want to.

Please assign tables. It works so much better.

I'm not doing assigned seats, but we are having a taco bar and not some fancy multi course meal. I feel like adults should be able to seat themselves and if they chose to overcrowd their table that will be on them

Assign tables, not seats.

At the very least, I'd assign tables. That way guests have an idea of where to go!

I'm assigning seats but that's because I want our parents/ggmrandparents and siblings closest to us and there is some animosity between some family members. Easier for us that way.

You don't have to if you don't want to. I always hated assigned seating as a guest. I would either get stuck at the "singles" table making uncomfortable small talk with strangers, or when part of a couple still stuck at a table with people I don't know. I don't fault any brides who want do that for their big day, just not for me. thankfully my FH is in total agreement

You don't have to, but I always prefer it. Even if you assign tables, and not seats. The seating chart sets the tone for how fun/lively the reception will be. Plus if you don't do one, you have to plan for extra seats and settings since people don't sit themselves efficiently.

You don't have to, but i would strongly suggest it. Just bulk them at a table at least. otherwise people will try moving chairs to squeeze at other tables and it could get uncomfortable. it also could be confusing for the wait staff if guests keep moving around

View Quoted Comment No wait staff so that’s not a concern!

I unfortunately have to assign tables and seats because when i give the venue my seating chart i must also give them the menu selections. so they will be serving those specific dishes to those guests.

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Perfect!! that makes it a little easier lol so then whatever you feel comfortable with. if you want to save yourself the stress there's nothing wrong with that.