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Asking my Fiances sister to be one of my bridesmaids...

Stephanie, on January 21, 2017 at 12:20 AM Posted in Planning 0 4

Hi, my fiancé has 3 sisters; two who I'm close to and another sister whose really nice, but I'm not as close to because she has only lived in the same state as us for the past 2 years. My fiancé didn't really grow up with this sister, but again, she's really nice to me and she's basically always around now. I feel kinder bad having my fiances 2 other sisters as bridesmaids, but not her. Would it be proper and the right thing to do to also ask her to be my bridesmaid?

I know she will definitely be hurt if I have her other two sisters as bridesmaids and not her. We currently have 6 bridesmaids/groomen total, and I've only chose 5 people so far, which includes his 2 sisters. He has my brother as a groomsmen and my god son who I'm extremely close to, and the other me groosmen are friends.

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Latest activity by weddingbee, on January 21, 2017 at 10:47 PM
  • Silverlava
    VIP September 2017
    Silverlava ·
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    Did you already ask the other sisters? If so, asking the third much later would be a bit rude. Im guessing you probably have, if your wedding is in < 3 months.

    Also, do you have 5 BM and 6 GM then? And youre looking to add 1 more BM?

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
    CMC ·
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    Yeah it's a bit late at this point to ask her, if your wedding is in 2 months? Personally I would not have asked 2 sisters and left one out.

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  • futuremrsshapard
    Super June 2017
    futuremrsshapard ·
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    My fiancé also has 3 sisters, one is my MOH and the other two are bridesmaids. There's definitely no way I could've left one out, plus I feel like family should be with you on this day, considering family will(should) always be there whereas friends can fade.

    But if your wedding is in two months I don't see how any of them have time to get dresses and what not??? Kind of confused on the time frame but I definitely wouldn't leave her out!

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  • Samtoine2017
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    Is your wedding actually 2018?

    I'd ask them all. About 6 to 8 months until your wedding.

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