Desperately need some unbiased opinions and advice. Long story short, my ex best friend and I are in the beginning stages of reconnecting after a disastrous and awful falling out 4.5 years ago. We’ve agreed to take it slow. As for the fall out, we lived together and I wound up leaving due to toxic behaviors on her part. She is so far proving to be regretful, apologetic, and sincere.
We were best friends for 16 years, growing up together and doing everything together. We always imagined we’d be bridesmaids in each other’s weddings. That being said, my wedding is less than two months away and I’m feeling torn about whether or not to invite her or squeeze her in to be a part of my bridal party. It feels like odd timing to make her a bridesmaid since everything is still fresh with our friendship again and it’s so late in my planning, but I also feel like if I just invite her as a guest, it will feel weird and sad to have her present but not playing a role in my big day. I’m not sure if there even is a way to include her in the wedding other than being a bridesmaid. But it wouldn’t be taking it slow to include her. I’m very torn. Any advice is appreciated as I am very lost on what to do. TIA.
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