Arriving to the Venue Together?

It completely doesn't matter. Do what works best for you. Even if you were dressed up, as long as you were OK with it, it wouldn't be an issue.

It’s really personal preference. It’s all just superstition about not seeing each other before the wedding, so if you guys don’t care about that stuff then by all means car pool together! We still haven’t decided what we’re doing about that yet.

Congratulations guys have a blessed and happy life

Doesn’t matter. FH and I are staying together the night before the wedding, getting dressed in separate hotel suites and then we’re doing a first look. So seeing each other that day is totally fine and doesn’t change anything.

If you are observing the tradition, it is to not see the bride dressed yet in her bridal finery. A lot of people do not care about the tradition ( like us) and others stay together the night before, then part and do not get together until first look.

It’s your day so the two of you should do whatever makes you comfortable.

I don't think it matters, just do what works for you. I need to start getting ready at 7:30 with my girls and I'm staying in a hotel with one of my bridesmaids. So I will probably get there before my husband. He really doesn't need to start getting ready until 8:30-9.

It totally doesn't matter. Do whatever you feel comfortable with!

First of all congrats matt, and I think you should come together

If I was in ur situation I would arrive together. FH and I will be waking up together, getting ready at my house then going to our ceremony location where I will put my dress on. He will fully get dressed at our house.