Hello! We are getting married on February 13, 2021. Planning a wedding during Covid has been stressful (as I am sure a lot of you already know). I have been pretty calm and laid back, it is what it is kind of thing. But something is sticking in my craw and I really need opinions. We have booked an all inclusive venue that is just gorgeous. When I saw this venue, I just knew it was for us. Anyway, part of our package (expensive package may I add) is that we get a "wedding extravaganza". It is an even they host, where we get to try all the appetizers, main entrees, and see what our wedding setup would look like, options for decorating, etc. We were supposed to go to this event in March, then it got pushed to August, then to October, now it has been pushed until January 20th. Less than a month before our wedding. I am trying to be understanding because of Covid, but the venue wants more and more money from us, but does not seem to want to provide their end of the deal. I literally cried when they told me I had to wait until January. My final details appointment is three weeks before this, where I already have to have everything picked out and finalized. When I expressed my disappointment, my wedding planner told me, " Well a crab cake tastes like a crab cake, what else do you need to know?" I literally felt like I had been slapped. I was naughty and started reading their reviews lately and unfortunately a lot of people are saying the same thing and are also commenting on how bad the food is. I get people can be unfair, but I am so uneasy. We are paying for the wedding ourselves, and I do not mind paying for it but, I feel like maybe they do not care about us as a couple and only the money. Am I being unfair? How would you handle this? Is anybody else going through this?