Are slow songs necessary for your reception?

Our DJ recommended a few slow songs spaced in to give people a break because faster paced songs get tiring and people are more likely to get tired and stop dancing if you dont get those breaks.

It would be thoughtful to add a few slower love songs so your guests can also feel the romance while they share in your wedding day. Plus, you never know what makes someone rush to the dancefloor whether "Fools Rush In" or "Proud Mary".

I was at a wedding a few months ago that had zero slower songs. Their DJ faded each fast song into the next so it basically sounded like the same song for 2+ hours. I heard a few people say they loved this style, but my fiancé and I hated it. Even though I was not a fan of this style, the bride and groom loved it and were very happy with their DJ for doing it this way. Also consider the type of guests you have. This couple knew their friends would enjoy skipping the slow songs so it seemed to work for them (a lot of people spent the entire night on the dance floor). If you have a lot of guests that are more traditional, I'd consider mixing in a couple of slow songs. So ultimately I'd say it's your preference.

I think slow songs are a must. I would put 3-4 of them in the first hour or so of dancing and then you can taper off and not include many more throughout the night. Just my opinion of course - but i think it's nice to have a "break" from the fast stuff and you'll get a LOT of older guests on the dance floor with a few slow ones.

We also have a space for song recommendations for our guests on our RSVP form so maybe a few will pick out some slow songs they'd love (But I'll also be doing some research on my end). I appreciate all the advice! I should just stay away from that one family member's input.

Depending on the crowd, slow songs do tend to clear the dance floor. Lots of people will only dance to fast songs. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't have any slow songs at all. A few people will appreciate them and it's nice for variety. Go with your own preference on this.

Slow songs are often a nice time for people who like dancing to take a break since all of that dancing can be quite exhausting and people need to take a break to get a drink and whatnot. That's what I always do at the weddings I have attended in the past. Plus some people want to slow dance with their dates or partners, not everyone wants high energy songs.

I think this is a matter of know your crowd.

We'll probably end up asking our close friends (which make up the majority of our guest list) their preference so it'll answer some questions there. Thanks so much for everyone's feedback!

I think a few throughout the night gives people a break and can be nice for couples to have a moment together on the dance floor since the day is all about spreading love!

Some people like to take a break from fast paced dancing and some people feel that slow dancing is required/expected at a wedding because they celebrate love. That is absolutely valid. To be honest, we would be shocked if there were no slow songs. Our dj sprinkled them throughout the evening and the dance floor was still packed.

I think having at least a few slow songs is a good idea. Some people prefer to dance to slower songs, some will appreciate the break to get a drink or run to the bathroom, and it gives you and your new spouse some time to be close to one another. I'd also consider how many single guests (as in, don't have a partner with them) you're going to have vs guests that are a couple. We didn't have many guests who were single, so most guests had someone to dance with whenever a slower song came on.