Soooo (sigh) my amazing man proposed on New Year's Eve and immediately afterwards, called his mother and his brother to share the news. They congratulated him and because they hadn't been talking to each other for months because of an old argument, they turned the news into about them reconnecting, etc.
Mind you, bae and I have been dating for 6 1/2 years and I've been around his mother and his brother & brother's wife throughout those years.
Yet, the mother in law nor the brother contacted me personally to say congratulations, ask if we needed any help, etc. The brother's wife, in which I was actually a business partner with her before branching solo, reached out once because I had posted the news on FB and her text to me "Hey, I saw on FB that you're engaged...congratulations."
Now, I'm a libra and I tend to overthink and can even internalize a lot...but I'm also very intuitive...and I feel like that's major shade. I feel like as close as what I thought I used to be to his mom and his brother, that they would have at least sent me a text congratulating us...because when they want something, they text me. But no sign of acknowledgement to me as the future Mrs coming into the family...not even an IG like or FB like on our proposal photo....
Am I overthinking it? Or is the beginning of Shade-In-Laws at their finest? I hate being fake, I hate being estranged, but I'm fiercely loyal to my values and my parents or brother have never treated my man with such dismissiveness.... help me get outta my head...or pls throw me some sunglasses for all this shade I'm about to deal with!