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Cara
Savvy January 2018

Appropriateness of chargers

Cara, on January 18, 2017 at 8:24 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

Are chargers appropriate for a buffet wedding? I would love to have gold chargers but we are having a buffet and I would like to

avoid being tacky. Thanks ladies!

Edit: I understand that chargers are not necessary, that is not what I am asking. Smiley smile

16 Comments

Latest activity by Lauren17, on January 19, 2017 at 11:52 AM
  • TIFFANY
    Super July 2017
    TIFFANY ·
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    I'm only having it for the head table

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    Not tacky but definitely an unnecessary expense.

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  • karen
    Master October 2017
    karen ·
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    Having them only for the head table is tacky. Please do not do it. All tables should get the same food, wine, china, etc. At most, head table, if bigger, can have bigger centerpeice.

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  • Cara
    Savvy January 2018
    Cara ·
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    I understand it's definitely not necessary. Just wanting to know if it's inappropriate/tacky to have chargers with a buffet-- thanks!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Not inappropriate, but unnecessary

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
    Mrs. Knolle ·
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    We had chargers and a buffet.

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  • E&M
    VIP September 2017
    E&M ·
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    I wouldn't think it's tacky. If you love it and it's in your budget I'd go for it.

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  • Tina
    Expert May 2017
    Tina ·
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    I was going to have chargers but we are having buffet style as well so I feel like it would be unnecessary. I don't think you'll need them.

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  • AlmostMrsAndrews
    Dedicated June 2017
    AlmostMrsAndrews ·
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    I am having chargers. Yes, they are added expense and not necessary. Depending on our final count we are having a buffet or plated (our guest list has climbed dramatically!). I would ask yourself what vibe are you trying to achieve? For me I'm going for the elegant candlelight look; real plates and all. A friend had an outdoor farm wedding and it wasn't as necessary particularly because she used high quality disposable plates. If you do decide on chargers, the dollartree has gold for $1 each. And yes, do the same for all

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  • GetMeBodied
    Devoted July 2017
    GetMeBodied ·
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    Just like most wedding decoration, chargers are unnecessary. I am not sure why so many people feel it is necessary to point out the fact they have deemed them unnecessary. I plan to use them because I like them. I will also have a buffet style dinner. Additionally, my sweetheart table will be decorated in a different manner than the guests tables. That also holds true for the cake and gift tables.

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  • Future Mrs. Hill
    Devoted November 2017
    Future Mrs. Hill ·
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    I'm having a buffet and using chargers...more so as decoration for the table.

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  • JuneBride
    Super June 2017
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    @Sara- when I went to the rental place, they recommended NOT having chargers if you are doing a buffet and the plates are up at the buffet line because they said inevitably someone will think the charger is the plate and carry it up to the buffet and it's awkward. This isn't necessarily to discourage you from doing it since your FMIL seems pretty set on it but more for the OP!!!

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  • GoingBALDwin!!!!!
    Master April 2017
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    I'm having buffet. My catering includes table cloths, napkins, plates, silverware, and charger plates.

    Totally unnecessary. But since mine is included.

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  • Bethyonce
    Master February 2015
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    We had a buffet. Had chargers. I wanted the tables to look dressed. Personal preference. To me, it was worth the expense. If I had to limit my budget, they'd have been one of the first to go though.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    I don't even know what that is, so no. LOL

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  • Lauren17
    Master July 2017
    Lauren17 ·
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    We are having chargers and buffet.

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