Anyone else out there NOT having a bachelorette party?

My wedding has been a huge stressful mess. 3 of my bridesmaids dropped out one was my older sister she is not coming and doesnt want to be in it be cause she claims she has no money and got mad at me when i offered to pay for her and her kids to be in the wedding and she only lives 3hrs away. another said she had no money after she knew a whole yr to save for a dress really? there not that expensive. and the other just straight up lied to me she said they wouldnt have the dress in time at DB i have been telling her for months to go order it. how do i know she lied? because another BM wend the day before she told me that and she had no problem getting her dress. what do you say to someone like that? i asked all of them are you sure you want to be in it they seemed like they didnt from the begining they all said yes then a month before the wedding they all drop out. i felt it was all very disrespectful im very hurt and irritated and angry...so i feel i have no friends (continued...)