I have never been the type for bridal showers. They just seem totally gift grabby to me. It's hard for me to ask that of my guests because all of them don't live by me and are out of town, and we also live out of town from the wedding. We live together and have a lot of stuff. We'd like some more stuff, nicer upgraded stuff if we can, and our wedding is in 4 months. And we still have a lot to do! My bridesmaids hate bridal showers and so do I, but stuff is nice. I always thought shelling out a gift for the shower and the wedding was kind of unnecessary and very expensive. Anyone else not have a shower and don't regret it? We aren't having a rehearsal dinner either.