Anyone else in the crying stage before their wedding? Stressed!

Hi,

Yes the bridesmaids have their dresses, but two of them wont be getting back from seamstress til two days before the wedding after ive mentioned 100 times please go get it alter'd. Im so over it! Just freaking do it, why do people wait til the last minute? And then my one bridesmaid asked if it was okay for her to wear white shoes...they were blinged out and all. like NO! I gave them each a sheet on what to wear/whats expected of them in their roles. I dont understand. My mom bought a dress that I told her she can't wear and well shes wearing it. I'm so overwhelmed with questions from people around me.

I promise, in two weeks, the bridesmaids will have their dresses, everyone will be wearing shoes and your mother will be dressed! You can only control what you do. At the end of the day, what your mom wears is up to her and is only a reflection on her.

As for all the questions, is there a way to refer people to a wedding website? Can you text people back at your convenience, or again, delegate some of the replies? The last minute calls kind of go with the territory, but you can decide when and how to answer.