Anyone else have a "MAN of Honor" Instead a "MAID of honor"?

PS We asked a friend to officiate for us and his name happens to be the same as FH and my Man of honor. Oops Do you think the out of town family will be confused enough about who everyone is? Haha

If your man of honor is gay i don't see a problem with sharing a hotel with him.. if he's straight that changes everything. lol

He's very straight!

I wouldn't really include him on the bachelorette party.. well maybe, but no sharing hotels. unless your FH is totally okay with it. Your situation is different, it is hard for me to relate.

My Man of Honor was my brother along with my two bridesmen who were also my brothers. They stayed in a room together the night before wedding and got ready with my groom and his 6 guys. As far as gifts I got them multi-tool pocket knives engraved with their initials. DH got his groomsmen money clips with their name and I got my groom an engraved pocket-watch. I would talk your concerns over with your groom and see what he thinks and hopefully he wouldn't mind him staying with the groomsmen and getting ready and pics prior to the ceremony all together. Good luck!

I did think about having a Man of honor, cause one of my good friends who has been there for me the most is a guy (and gay), but since I'm having a traditional wedding, it didn't feel right. I'm making him an usher though... as much as I'd love to have him at the bachh party, I'm not including him. Even for a gay guy its awkward to be around 10 girls and be the only guy...

Yeah no sharing a room is not okay in my books.

My MOH is my male best friend. It has been planned since we were in high school... A few relationships ago. He plans to act as maid of honor - he even picked out a dress for himself, which I love. Lol. Since FW and I are gay (and MOH is pan - not sure if that matters?) it doesn't really mean anything and we could probably share a hotel room... Although we won't, because wherever the wedding ends up being, FW and I will have our own accommodations. The places in the running are all places I have friends or family to stay with, even if it's in a living room. However, if we end up having it where my mom lives, MOH will be staying in her living room. Lol.

FH is cool with whatever. He is very laid back and likes my man of honor very much. I'm not worried about anything causing a problem for him I just wanted to hear from some other brides who are having a man of honor and how they are handling the logistics of a man taking on a traditionally female role....

FH is having a best woman instead of a best man. She's wearing a tux, and is helping with the Bachelor and Bachelorette parties, she can choose if she's with us or the guys. She will be helping find tuxes as well.