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Super October 2017

Anyone do/planning on a joint father/daughter & mother/son dance?

Jill, on March 9, 2017 at 10:25 AM Posted in Planning 0 18

He doesn't really want to do a dance at all, but his mother will be upset if they don't, so we are thinking about doing a joint dance.

Song suggestions?

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Latest activity by Natalie, on March 9, 2017 at 4:20 PM
  • mrsmack
    VIP April 2017
    mrsmack ·
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    "Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler

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  • KW
    Expert August 2017
    KW ·
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    We are! Haven't decided on a song yet tho :/

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  • B
    Dedicated April 2017
    Briella ·
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    You raise me up....there are many different covers but my favorite is Josh groban

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  • OG Kathryn
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    OG Kathryn ·
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    We did. We used Carole King and James Taylors, You've got a friend.

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  • Anne
    Master April 2017
    Anne ·
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    Yeah, FH really didn't want to be up there by himself for the mother/son so he suggested we do both the parent dances together. We will be dancing to "In My Life" by The Beatles.

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  • E
    Savvy April 2017
    Emily ·
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    I'm doing this as well! I'm letting my MIL pick the song so she feels more included in the process and that this is something special still despite being a co- dance.

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  • TeamGrz
    Expert May 2018
    TeamGrz ·
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    We have been considering this. Neither my FH or my father are big dancers. Neither one of them likes too much attention on them, so we are considering a joint dance to take some of the attention off them.

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  • Jenna
    Dedicated April 2017
    Jenna ·
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    Looking into this as well. I found this thread on WW. Might have some Ideas for everyone.

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/suggestions-on-song-combining-mother-son-father-daughter-dance/6afd6cd861ebdac3.html

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  • SwissMs
    Super March 2018
    SwissMs ·
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    We're not doing any dancing. But as a guest, I always appreciate when these two are done jointly rather than separately. There is only so much watching other people dance while sitting quietly that I can do.

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  • Karie
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    Karie ·
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    I hope you dance by rascal flatts would be a good one!

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
    MrsSki ·
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    My Wish or Humble and Kind if you're country fans!

    Just curious though - is your dad on board with this? Mine wouldn't be happy about sharing our dance

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  • Greenleaf
    Devoted July 2017
    Greenleaf ·
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    We are doing one! Honestly I kind of wish we could skip it but my fiance's mother is really looking forward to it so we're including it. I was thinking either I Hope You Dance or Let It Be.

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  • Gracie Lou Freebush
    VIP October 2017
    Gracie Lou Freebush ·
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    Oh now I wanna do this bc the dance doesn't really mean that much to me but it does to FH

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  • Mrs. Knolle
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    Mrs. Knolle ·
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    We danced at the same time to I Hope You Dance by Lee Ann Womack.

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  • Kia9
    Super August 2017
    Kia9 ·
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    We are doing it to avoid holding everyone hostage for a long period of time Smiley smile We don't have a song yet

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  • Holly
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    Holly ·
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    If he doesn't want to, don't make him. It's his wedding, not his mother's.

    As a guest, I prefer it when the dances are done at one time (or skipped entirely). Dances are not fun for the guests to watch.

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  • EndofaDarrah
    Devoted August 2017
    EndofaDarrah ·
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    We are deciding what we are going to do! Ive been thinking start with just me and dad (maybe 30 seconds, minute max) then FH and FMIL join, then we either finish together or dad and I leave them for 30 seconds or so to be alone on the floor. We'll be deciding and working on this with the DJ and planner as well as the parents in the dance!

    I'm also not a huge fan of long dances focused on just us so I'd like to honor the tradition but make it our own and also avoid the awkwardness I'm anticipating.

    That being said we are still working on a song but have a long time to decide still!

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  • Natalie
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    Natalie ·
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    We're doing two separate dances, but my sister and her husband did a joint dance to "I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack.

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