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Tamika
Expert October 2019

any destination weddings in here đź‘€

Tamika, on March 1, 2019 at 8:02 PM

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We are from Ohio but having our wedding in Gatlinburg and a lot of people are complaining driving 5 hours and saying we should have planned in our hometown. Regardless, we are not changing or minds but it does make me upset.
We are from Ohio but having our wedding in Gatlinburg and a lot of people are complaining driving 5 hours and saying we should have planned in our hometown. Regardless, we are not changing or minds but it does make me upset.

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  • Tamika
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    Okay that's not bad.

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  • Tamika
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    Right! So I'm trying not to stress. What's your guest count?

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
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    Our DW was an 8-hour drive (or 1-hour flight), but we changed our original invite list from 40 to 15 due to costs for us and guests. We did host a local reception a few months later. Worked out beautifully.

    If your 100 guests aren’t mostly close family, you may have a lot of complaints or declines but realize whomever goes is meant to be there! 🙂
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I'm originally from CA and have been living in NV for like 4 years or so. My fiance's family is here and most of mine in CA so we thought we would have it in CA. We've gone through venues here and in CA and we just kept getting disappointed. We did more research and just decided to do a small one in HI on the Big Island. In all honesty, whoever cares enough to make it will be there. Don't let it get to you. I know we're about to make some people feel some type of way but it's something we both want.

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  • Erin
    Devoted June 2019
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    Destination Wedding Bride here! Getting married in the Dominican Republic.
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  • Mrs. S
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    We are inviting 82 knowing we’ll get some declines. I’m prepping my emotions to accept the possibility of a low guest count and appreciate whoever does come.
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  • KYLIE
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    Ooo I love Gatlinburg!! What a fun location!!

    Most of our guests live in the Northeast (CT, NY, MA, RI...), including us. We're getting married in Orlando. We've heard a few grumbles but not much. My fiance and I are very, very excited! Had we married in CT, we'd have had to send a bunch of obligatory invites to people that we didn't actually want there. Instead, we're having a more intimate wedding (around 50) with the people we really care about and who really care about us!

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated June 2019
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    We are from KY and are getting married in destin FL for immediate family only. We plan to have a reception at home in August so everyone can come. We love gatlingburg and go yearly!
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  • Tamika
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    That us exciting!!!!

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  • Tamika
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    Okay, I will thank you Wendy. Sorry for responding back so late.

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  • Tamika
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    I know I cannot wait to go!!!! I pray the temperature is fantastic as well!

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  • Tamika
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    So thats what I am trying to stay around is less than 100. I know that maybe less than 40 will probably be there if that. A lot of people will probably sent gifts if they cannot go.

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  • Tamika
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    Same here! I did give everyone a year notice plus I sent out the "Save The Dates" a year in advance and will send out the formal invites somewhere around June- July of this year.

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  • Tamika
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    GO ERIN!!!!!!!!

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  • Tamika
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    I really hope that it works out for you two both.

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  • Tamika
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    That sounds awesome and beautiful!!!!!!!!! Have fun

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  • Tamika
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    I know, that is what I said at this point too.

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  • Ingrid
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    I will, hopefully. I've been having trouble with his family being on board with it. But, those that want to celebrate will be there and those that dont wont.
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  • Tamika
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    That is going to be gorgeous!

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  • Tamika
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    Thank you for that I really needed that
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