Anxiety...interracial couples

We are an interracial couple as well! Avoid areas that are racially charged. Stick with family and friends.
I've had similar concerns about our reception. Drinks seem to make people say what they normally wouldn't. The last thing we need is negative craziness on our special day.
I understand your concerns completely! It's a shame that in 2019 this is still an issue!
Good luck hun!!💕

Another interracial couple here! If anyone says something rude, don't be afraid to call someone out for their ignorance. Maybe nobody's had the courage to tell them their views are ridiculous. Be the person to teach them about interracial relationships! Show them that love is love, and love always wins Wishing you the best of luck!

If you're very stressed you can see a professional about a some as needed xanax (maybe 1 or 2 pills for your visit and 1 or 2 for around the wedding.) Xanax is only good for short term but this seems short term.

Hello lovely! Shots are always a great idea But seriously as an interracial couple in California whose getting married in Louisiana, I understand the stress. I sometimes to forget people care that we are interracial. But am reminded quickly whenever we receive the stares or negative comments. And as an introvert with anxiety I feel your struggle! It’s inevitable that outside things or your own stress with get in your head. Just remind yourself over and over that is about you and your spouse, that even when people are around, you can hibernate in the comfort of being with your partner.

Just remember that you are lucky enough to be marrying someone you love and not everyone can say that, interracial or not. Try to stay strong lovely. If you want to talk more, feel free to message me 🙂

Don't second guess what you want. I'm sure the anxiety is high, I get it. Different views and tensions do vary where you go, but I'm sure you're both proud to have one another and it's not any of anyone's business. It's other people's issue, not yours. You'll have a beautiful wedding and if people don't want to come because of their views, or frown upon it, you're better off finding out now. You can do yoga, have a stiff drink or go to your doctor and get a low dose anxiety meds to take edge off. Just read up on options. I'm thinking of you guys!

Put on your coat of steel. People can say the crappiest crap and we can't control it. I'm sorry. Your a strong woman and will handle every situation with dignity. That's your mantra. I'll be thinking of you and hoping people keep their bad attitudes to themselves.