Announcing the official date

Unless every person on your FB, Insta, and SnapChat is going to be invited to the wedding, I honestly wouldn't make a post. People always wanna be invited to weddings, and if they know the date but don't get a save the date or invitation, they may start asking and/or be upset.

View Quoted Comment I agree with this. No need to make it public to those who aren't invited.

View Quoted Comment That’s a good way to look at it. Thank you!!😊♥️

View Quoted Comment That’s true-I guess I was considering it since I share so much about my life on social media🤷🏽‍♀️ Like I share major events and things that are important to me there. not a bad idea though thank you! 😊

I don't agree with the "don't make it public post" ... Because social media is just that SOCIAL MEDIA! Who cares about people knowing the date but not being invited? Social media is a platform to really express whatever you want. It's not an invitation to events 🤣

View Quoted Comment That’s how I feel!!!💪🏽💪🏽 I Accept all opinions and it’s not a bad view but that’s how I feel too. Most of my social media friends know I’m not inviting them it’s just where I share my life at, you know? I know these people personally (most of them) but they know also that doesn’t mean you all can come!🤷🏽‍♀️😂

I also agree that I wouldn't share the date on social media because then people you might want be inviting will want an invite. Instead I would send save the dates to those actually invited.

View Quoted Comment Thank you!

View Quoted Comment EXACTLY lol girl post your date. If anyone gets offended that they know your date but isn't invited then 🥴 ... 🤣 that's a stupid reason to be upset with someone.

View Quoted Comment Right!! And I most surely am not pressed 😂😂I’ll tell my personal friends personally those are all I care about being “upset” or not. 😇

View Quoted Comment Right! I mean it's the same as verbally saying your date. Are you only supposed to talk wedding with people that are invited? NO. Me personally, I love seeing wedding things and relationship things on social media even if I don't even know the people. I wouldn't assume that I'm being invited to a wedding because I seen a social media post. And I also wouldn't be upset

View Quoted Comment 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽You literally are taking the thoughts out of my head!! I’m so glad I’m not alone. And maybe I’m wording it improperly by saying “announce”. I just mean I haven’t mentioned the specific date at all cuz I haven’t had our pics done yet-I’m glad you get it lol my fiancée was confused too and was like yeah don’t announce it on fb and I had to explain what I meant. I love to see wedding things too! That’s what made me add this app to my phone other than getting advice for myself too. I wouldn’t expect an invite bc im your social media friend 😂😂if that’s the case all of us should have invites to each other’s weddings 🤷🏽‍♀️😂(I’m sure others will disagree but it’s all perspective and opinion 💪🏽)

View Quoted Comment No I get it girl, it's being made more than it really is. Post your date and hashtag whenever you feel the need to, most people will "love" & comment on it being happy for you! When I posted our date people were happy for us. & I also received a lot of "omgggg I can't wait to see the pictures" comments.

View Quoted Comment I agree with this. Share the news privately

View Quoted Comment 🤗🤗🤗thank you!! 😍

STDs don't have to go out until, at earliest, a year out. Feel free to tell people who will be invited, but don't worry about not having your engagement photos, yet.

I echo the "keep it off social media", though - people will invite themselves, tell you what to do, and generally cause drama.

View Quoted Comment Thank you!😊♥️