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Jessica
Super May 2019

Announcing parents?

Jessica, on May 25, 2018 at 2:17 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14
Did you/ will you have your parents announced entering the reception? It's a bullet point on my DJ's planning packet and I hadn't really given it any thought yet.

My parents are divorced and remarried, and my dad is in a polyamorous relationship to boot. FH's mom is passed so it would only be his dad announced. I'm considering just having all the parents come in together and be announced as "the bride and groom's parents" rather than each couple separately.

What would you or did you do?

14 Comments

Latest activity by Samantha, on May 25, 2018 at 3:57 PM
  • HJKvr
    Expert September 2018
    HJKvr ·
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    I hadn't even thought of this... Hmmm.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    We announced my parents as a couple (they're still together). and H's parents separately (they're divorced). We didn't announce their significant others. If I were you I'd just leave it as introducing the parents and leaving out the significant others.

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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    We wont be announcing ours but we are also having a very small wedding
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  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
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    No, we aren't announcing our parents.... just us!

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  • Deirdre
    Super March 2018
    Deirdre ·
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    We announced both parents, but our situation was a lot simpler. My H's parents are both still married to each other and my mom died when I was young, but my dad's been remarried since I was 12, so it was just him and my step mom, who I have a close relationship with. If I was in your situation, I would probably skip it. I like your idea of all the parents at once. That way you could still do it and make everyone feel included. I don't know if I would have announced my dad alone if he wasn't remarried when I was announcing H's parents as a couple. Once of my uncles passed away 10 years ago and when one of my cousin's got married, they still introduced their mom, but they had her escorted by their dad's brother. You could do something like that with H's dad if you wanted to do it separately. Good luck!

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  • OrangeCrush
    Super October 2017
    OrangeCrush ·
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    Don't feel obligated to announce them.

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  • V
    Dedicated October 2018
    veral ·
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    We are not announcing our parents either.. I think it will be ok if you don’t. My parents are still together and his father is deceased. But we are still not doing an announcement at reception
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  • #TiffaniLovesJohn
    Savvy November 2018
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    We are only announcing us and our children. But we are also older and have been independent of them for a very long time. We will do something during the ceremony to recognize our mothers.
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  • Rachel
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    Rachel ·
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    I hadn't thought about this either. Out parents re-married so we have 4 sets between us. We are closer to some of our step parents than we are to others but t would seem rude to announce two step parents and not the others. I think we might want to do two groupings: "the bride's parents" and "The grooms parents" buuut FH's parents don't exactly get along... We might have to announce each couple

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  • BrandiWeds18
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    BrandiWeds18 ·
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    My mom doesn't want this so it will just be the bridal party.

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  • Jessica
    Super May 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Thank you guys! I love all these different ideas of what works best for everyone's family.
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  • JustKidding
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    JustKidding ·
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    I've never seen this done. *shurgs* this wouldn't have even been something I would have thought. I would have been like nope, and moved on.

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  • F
    Devoted August 2018
    futuremrs ·
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    For my reception I’m only having the DJ announce me and my FH, I’m skipping the rest of it
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  • S
    Beginner August 2018
    Samantha ·
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    Hmm thats a little bit of a tough situation. For our wedding, my parents (who are still married) will be announced, and unfortunately my FH mother passed away last year so for his father we are having him be announced with one of his sisters (my FH’s aunts) that way he isnt walking in and being announced by himself.
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