Announcements

Are you saying you want to send PRE wedding announcements? If so- there aren't templates probably because this is considered rude and therefore does not have much demand. Send post announcements.

View Quoted Comment Exactly this.

View Quoted Comment I could see where that would come across as rude. However I can also see how post announcements might seem like rude as well. FH has a very large extended family and we just want to avoid harsh feelings the best we can. I realize I can’t please everyone but just trying to find best option to remind people hey we love you and we didn’t forget about you

View Quoted Comment Sending something that says “hey we’re getting married but you aren’t invited” isn’t going to make people feel loved or avoid harsh feelings.

View Quoted Comment I understand- you can't please everyone, no. The best way should be post announcements imo. As Sarah said- pre wedding announcements kind of say "here's this party you aren't invited to." Whereas post announcements read more as "we wish to tell you we've married." It also gives you an out. If someone says "why didn't you send these before/tell us before" you can reply "well etiquette dictates..." and it takes the pressure off of you.
I'd skip them all together personally and save the money on the stationary. Good luck!