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Chelsea
Expert July 2021

Angry Bride with her photographer

Chelsea, on October 6, 2020 at 3:59 PM Posted in Planning 0 11

I just need to rant. Got engaged June 2019 started looking for wedding photographers around December. My dad recommend a buddy whose done weddings for years. Reached out in January was ignored. February again and was told yes, perfect engagement photos in the spring well get a contract over. nothing. May comes and was told I would get a contract and photos set to do end of June. 2 weeks before photos asked for contract AGAIN was told he's going on vacation and to do them July 11th. No contract still. July 11th he sends my the contract like an hour before photos so i didn't get time to look it over and send it back so i gave him my deposit at the park. Was told we would get photos in 4 weeks.

6 weeks go by and I reach out just want a fine time of when ill get them.. 2 days turned into 3 weeks. I would ask and was told a day and the day past and I would asked the next. BEEN PRETTY CALM! Finally told my dad and he asked him what's going on and if he's wanting to do my wedding or not. That day bam photos! Good right?

I decided because of this issue I am keeping the contract till I decide what I'm going to do. I talked to another mutual friend and they told me he backed out of their wedding last year 2 weeks before the wedding and that I shouldn't have hired them.... I'm sorry what!!!!

Now I'm pissed because I'm waiting to till him the deal after I find a replacement.... I am now 8 months out from my wedding and have contacted 9 photographers ALL BOOKED......

Can I just say how angry I am. Im happy that its now and not 2 weeks but im angry because ive had 2 years of planning and could have found someone else.

I deserve better for my big day and now im dealing with this BS...

11 Comments

Latest activity by Marie, on October 13, 2020 at 8:53 AM
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Oh my goodness, that is frustrating and he's not giving good customer service. I recommend you look on thumbtack. You may have to compromise and book a photographer for 2 to 4 hours instead of the 8 hour shift.
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  • Biaani
    Expert May 2021
    Biaani ·
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    Oh my goodnes!!! I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Where are you located? I'm in NYC and just had an amazing engagement shoot with our photographer. They're affordable and reply to emails within 5 minutes. Marry You Wedding Photo and Cinema.

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  • Kimberly
    Super March 2021
    Kimberly ·
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    Ugh that is so frustrating. Do you think your dad could run a little interference for you and get this guy back on track? I would say if he is friends with your dad he most likely won’t do to you like he did your friend so there’s that at least. I hope you are able to find someone else! Good luck!
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    Rockstar July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    That is definitely frustrating. Unfortunately, this is why they don't recommend asking friends to be vendors. I would continue reaching out to other photographers in your area.
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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    I probably would’ve been done with his mess after the hassle of getting the contract.
    I reached out to a photographer I had never met and just found through Google (not a friend of someone I knew), she got back to me within 48 hours, we emailed a bit about dates, packages, etc. for a week or so. Contract was taken care of shortly after that.

    I can’t imagine waiting that long for engagement photos to be returned. I got my bridal/boudoir photos back exactly 2 weeks later, when she said I’d get them.
    I’m so sorry you’re dealing with all of this.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Hopefully you can find a more reliable replacement
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  • Crystal
    Dedicated November 2020
    Crystal ·
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    This is awful and frustrating but there are soooooo many photographers and you have ample amount of time. Take a deep breath, and FIRE him.

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  • Kiara
    VIP August 2021
    Kiara ·
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    Keep looking for someone else is there somewhere on the contract that says cancellation 30days before service dates..

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    Donnaly ·
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    This is horrible! I'm sure you still have enough time to replace him. He definitely should not have lasted in that kind of business if he's trash like that.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    Yikes! I would still keep looking for a new photographer. This guy would make me very nervous based on his track record!

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    February 2021
    Marie ·
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    Don't ever let him ruin your best day dear. You still have sufficient time to find a better photographer. Good luck.

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