Am i wrong for seating our moms separately

I feel like the parents of each side usually don't sit together? They usually have a table with immediately family of that side. For me it will be my mom, her husband, my siblings. My fhs side will be his parents, both sets of grandparents and his uncle.

View Quoted Comment You made me feel so much better about this because we were trying to blend our families and when we got to that part I had to tell my fiancé we can revisit this😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

My parents and my husband's parents didn't sit at the same tables. My parents sat at one table, my mother-in-law at another, and my father-in-law and wife at a third table.

Parents are generally seated separately with their immediate families.

Parents are generally seated with their immediate families and friends. People can mingle of their own accord. I feel like seating people together to force a connection is awkward and never ends well.

View Quoted Comment Thanks Hannah! I’m so happy I asked because I was feeling a bit uncomfortable honestly. Thank you for your response it’s appreciated.

My mom with be seated with my immediate family and my FHs mom will be seated with his immediate family.

Parents typically sit with their side of the family. My parents will be sitting with their close friends/siblings and my FH's mother will be sitting with her friends and sister :-)

It's going to be different for some but I would agree that typically they don't sit together. For us, my FH doesn't have much family at all. It's his parents, a family friend, a couple peoples he's worked with and friends. We decided to have a parents table with their family friend so she wouldn't feel alone. Unfortunately his grandpa can't travel otherwise he'd be there as well.

There's no problem with doing that! It's common to sit the mothers separately each with their own immediate families.

My parents and my in-laws didn't sit together at our wedding.

Not wrong at all.. In fact, I think it's most common to sit the parent separately. Usually the parents sit with their respective families. I sat my mother and mother-in-law at different tables and they get along just fine.

If you want them to sit together at some point you could seat them across from one another of side by side at the rehearsal dinner

Our parents also will not sit together due to differences in personality (not that they don't get along we've had plenty of family gatherings) and how the seating works for the tables at the venue too (you can always use that excuse if anyone asks )