This past Saturday I married my best friend and soul mate. It was truly the happiest day of my life.
Now to the negative. My cousin, of whom I considered one of my closest cousins did not attend. The day I booked the venue over 2 1/2 years ago I told him immediately. He swore I had nothing to worry about and reassured me he would be there. Many things have happened since then, like him getting married and a baby on the way but still throughout it all he said he would be there.
Fast forward to the day before my wedding he sends me a long text telling me he won’t be able to attend because of financial reasons (he went into more detail) but he was so sorry and “promises” to buy me and my husband tickets to Europe as a gift and blablabla
I couldn’t believe it. Telling me the DAY before so it was too late to change our count and talk about putting a damper on my day, then telling me through a text. I just feel like as dramatic as it sounds things between us will never be the same. I feel like something that meant so much to me was not a priority to him and that’s what hurts the most. Like you can come because of money but you promise to buy us tickets to Europe?
there were several other people who couldn’t attend and while of course I wanted them there I understood. I thought me and him were closer and I thought his word meant more. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
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