Am i 'weird' for not having a Moh?

I think it makes sense you didn't choose one specifically then to be your MOH if that's the case. At the end of the day it's just all a title and they're all there to support you on your day and their roles aren't any less important cause of titles

Also I'd just call em all bridesmaids*

I couldn't choose so I made all 3 of mine MOH's! Who decides what's right or wrong? That's JMO.

View Quoted Comment Thank you for responding! I agree. That’s exactly how I see it too.

You're not weird at all. Especially since I have three bridesmaids and no MOH. I felt they all should feel equal in that no one was favored over the other.

View Quoted Comment Agreed!!! How awesome is that!! Maybe if there were more bridesmaids I might feel like I need to pick just one to kind of ‘lead the pack’ but there are only 3.
Thanks for responding.

I’m kind of in the same boat Maritza! I have 5 including my daughter but my 3 best friends/sister are all equally important to me! I may have the two married ones be matrons on honor and the other 2 be maids of honor? I don’t want anyone to feel slighted! It’s tough so I understand completely!

I had 3 bridesmaids and no MOH. I didn't want to choose one over the other. They worked well together planning a couple's shower for us and my bachelorette party. When it came time to choose the order for the processional and where they would stand at the altar, I chose based on the length of time I had known each girl with the one I knew the longest standing next to me.

Not strange at all! My friend had seven maids and no one of honor

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Oh wow. I love hearing these examples of others that have done this as well..... I thought I was alone!

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Oh wow! Thank you for your input! I was thinking of lining them up based on who I knew the longest too! I am so happy to know I am not alone when it comes to this 'non-traditional' way.

Thank you for sharing!

NOT AT ALL..... our children are the wedding party 3 bridesmaids 3 groomsmen Granddaughter flower girl & Grandson ring bearer. i didn't want to deal with all those different attitudes from friends or family.

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I like your idea Brittany. I, too, didn't want anyone to feel like they were less important that the other. To be honest, I also didn't want anyone to have the added stress of being the MOH. I was feeling a little weird because there are some things that are just done a certain way, and now I am realizing that I can do it MY WAY if I choose to.. I'm so happy that I made this thread because I feel a lot better about it.

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I hear that! That makes sense. I am so happy to know that I am not the only one that is getting away from the 'traditional' wedding party set up.

Thanks !

I am not having a MOH. I am just having 2 bridesmaids and a bridesman. So that is what they are being called. I just did not feel like singling any one person out when I love everyone in my bridal party.

That's so not weird! Do what you feel is best

Same! I am having my 3 daughters(all grown) as bridesmaids and my 12 year old stepdaughter as my jr bridesmaid. I couldn't designate just 1 of my girls to be maid of honor, it would be like picking a favorite.