We originally had 8 people in our wedding party. 4 of which live in other states. Problems that arose during the early planning process:
-one girl said she called maid of honor in the group chat and I didn't correct her b/c I didn't want to embarrass/hurt her feelings
-same girl said she hated my wedding dress, and that if I made my cousin a bridesmaid she would "punch her in the face" even though she made her cousin her MOH and not me and then "called MOH at my wedding"
-same girl said my original venue was boring even though I was rly excited about it and ended up going with a more expensive venue that is giving us less time.
-different out of state girl hates pink and refused to wear the bridesmaids dress
If its not obvious, i'm kind of quiet and avoid confrontation. My solution has pretty much been to avoid the two problem bridesmaids that got fired ever since.
I got so upset at all of this that I just fired everyone. My fiance is sad bc he wants his brother and best friend to be his groomsmen, and I have 2 girls who were great and understanding about not being MOH or even bridesmaids at all and I hate to punish the good ones for the bad ones that I'm not even that close to anymore.
Also if you made it this far; which side would my gay feminine male friend and my masculine lesbian female stand on? They would hypothetically (if we have a wedding party) be in pants but are closer to me than the groom. Although he would need more bodies on his side and he only has the 2 previously mentioned if we do have a wedding party.
