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Michy
VIP June 2015

Am I crazy for letting my fiance choose his suit/the groomsmen's suits?

Michy, on October 7, 2014 at 10:45 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 44

Hi everyone. I am rather new to the forum so forgive me if this was mentioned before (I couldn't find anything via search). Anyway, most of the things for our wedding are already done (lol - I know - I'm a spaz). I got my dress, the centrepieces are purchased/ready to assemble, decor organized,...

Hi everyone. I am rather new to the forum so forgive me if this was mentioned before (I couldn't find anything via search). Anyway, most of the things for our wedding are already done (lol - I know - I'm a spaz). I got my dress, the centrepieces are purchased/ready to assemble, decor organized, vendors booked, etc. It's all going super well.

My question is: is it weird to let my fiance have total control over his suit and the groomsmen's attire? I don't think so but so far everyone I've mentioned it to casually thinks it's just weird and that I should pick everything, or at least have some input. (On a sidenote, I am getting sick of everyone's opinions about what we are doing - I mean people in real life. Like... if I don't ask for your opinion, keep your mouth shut! Ok rant over on that lol...)

I want to be just as surprised by what he picks as he is for what I picked for my dress....is that odd? I just figured he should get to pick what he wears too! Thoughts?

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  • MrsWright34
    Dedicated October 2014
    MrsWright34 ·
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    I went with my husband today and helped pick out his. I knew what colors I wanted and i gave him options. He choose the Vera Wang grey tux from mens wearhouse with a navy blue tie.

    Wedding colors are navy blue, yellow and ivory.

    I'm thinking it will be a hot mess but i had no help with planning so all of my ideas were all over the place. Fingers cross it all comes together.

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  • C
    Beginner October 2014
    Ciara ·
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    My FH picked out his own suit and the suits for the groomsmen. He took me along because he wanted my opinion. I felt he was the one wearing it so he should get to decide afterall it's our wedding not mine alone. I don't think there is anything wrong with it and yes wouldn't it be nice if people would stop giving unsolicited advice!

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  • SnappyLove2015
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    SnappyLove2015 ·
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    I'm 100% with you on this. We talked about it last night. I told him when he needed to go look by but i don't care what he wears. He's very particular about his suits and know what he's doing in that department. As long as its not Dumb and Dumber Orange/Blue style i'm okay with it. His brothers keep teasing that. I would die and then laugh!

    YES!! i'm so over peoples opinions about what we should do at OUR wedding. Key word people OURS!

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  • RH
    Master November 2014
    RH ·
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    We mutually decided on the suits, we decided black suits. They don't have to be matching, they just have to be black suits. FH picked out the vests and ties for all the guys.

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