So some of you might’ve seen that FFIL has some health issues and refusing treatment so FH and I plan on doing a intimate elopement in August of this year so FFIL can enjoy seeing one of his children get married before he starts to decline health wise.
My sister, as far as I knew, was planning to have her elopement in December. Apparently it was being planned since December though and they are doing it three days after our date. I did not know this when FH and I talked about it and made the plans for it. She is not having our mother go to hers since it’s out of state and they plan to do a bigger thing for their families next year, possibly!
The reason FH and I picked August is because FH wants us to be in our own house before we do it, the place that we picked is outside and August is the last month before weather begins to get cold and rainy. We also have FFILs health to worry about, we don’t know when his decline is going to start but know that when it does it’s going to be quick.
My sister and I do not have the best relationship, in fact we have not spoken to each other in over really six months at this point until I reached out to try to repair things and wish her luck on her job interviews and school. Now she is demanding that I either move our elopement date or go back to not speaking or having a relationship.
Am I being unreasonable with staying with our date in August or is she for demanding that we change it?
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