Am i behind?

Save the dates definitely need to be sent out soon. but other than that you are probably fine just starting to feel the pressure. As for your dress I think it may just depend on where you go and which ones they are able to order on time for alterations and what not I have seen some take long and others say they will take long and end up getting to you with in the month. I'm sure you are fine though.

I would say the only thing you might be slightly behind on is your dress! Other than that, I think you're doing fine! I'm August 1st and we haven't done our cake yet, so you're ahead of me on that . We have our DJ, reception hall, church, caterer, and just booked our block of hotel rooms. I've dyed my flowers -- just have to make the bouquets, corsages, and boutonnieres. We are just finalizing our guest list to order invites soon (we didn't do STD)!

It is probably just the pressures of planning. Try to remember everybody goes at different paces for planning and it can depend on if you're DIYing things or not. Try not to stress too much and take things at your pace!!!

You have plenty of time. Our entire engagement is only 8 months long and I booked almost all of our vendors within the first two months of being engaged. I bought one dress from David's Bridal that I ended up taking back, but only took a month to come in. I bought another dress that was custom-sized from Azazie.com and that also only took a month to come in. If you have your heart set on a specific designer, I would definitely shop sooner rather than later, otherwise you can find a dress no problem. Save the dates should also be sent out as soon as you get your photos back for them (since you want to use them for the save the dates). You're not behind at all; before you know it, you'll be sitting back counting down the days feeling like there's nothing left for you to plan!

Yes, of course!! Don't stress too much just now! Enjoy the process.. Good luck dress shopping!!!

I feel you with the "Behind Feeling". My wedding is October 9th, 2020 and I feel so over whelmed with trying to find the best options for a very small wedding. I have been doing no stop research on different vendors at different price points to fit in our budget… I am finally going dress shopping this weekend too! I hope you find the dress of your dreams

I would say you are just fine honestly. I would get dress and florist done soon but it's for sure not a rush/panic moment yet.

My wedding a week after yours and save the dates are going out Friday which is plenty of time according to everything I've read up on. I would make getting a dress your next priority, you don't want to limit yourself on what could be available on time!