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SarahB
Just Said Yes November 2017

Alternative to Dancing

SarahB, on October 3, 2017 at 5:41 PM Posted in Planning 0 9

Hey all! My FH and I have been thinking about our timeline of events, and based on our guest list, we don't picture too many guests jumping in on the dancing afterwards. There are only going to be about 50 people total, but my family/friends are extremely different in likes, personalities, etc from my FH's. They will all get along and have a fun time, but I just don't want to allot time for the dance floor and have most of the guests awkwardly sitting around. We still want to offer it in case guests surprise us, but do any of you have ideas for fun alternatives?

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Latest activity by Future Mrs M, on October 4, 2017 at 3:57 PM
  • PandaInLove
    Expert August 2017
    PandaInLove ·
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    What time of day is your reception and is it indoor or outdoor?

    My DH is a metalhead and I enjoy metal as well, but for him it's one of the few genres of music he enjoys. I understand metal is an acquired music taste and not quite appropriate for a wedding, but DH wanted to have several songs played that he deemed romantic that weren't by any means something to dance to. I asked him to trust our DJ to pick the right songs for our guests (which mainly consisted of pop, 90s, dance music, line dances, etc) and it all worked out. Even he enjoyed it.

    But to offer a suggestion, how about something like the Shoe Game for your guests. Just a bit of entertainment for your guests that allows them to get to know you as a couple. You could also have other games or displays to entertain people while they mingle if you have the budget.

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  • Samantha
    Beginner July 2018
    Samantha ·
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    Your guests will just talk, I wouldn't substitute with games

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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
    Kiwibride ·
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    People that don't want to dance will just mingle and talk. No need for other activities

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  • Anne
    Dedicated October 2017
    Anne ·
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    At our brunch wedding we don't expect a lot of dancing but will have a dance floor and music just in case. Otherwise I expect people will just hangout, drink, and chat!

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  • M
    Savvy March 2018
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    Ive wondered about this myself. I plan to put out a few decks of playing cards and some of those wedding "mad lib" advice cards. if nothing, itll be a great way to start conversations Smiley smile

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  • JustAnotherJessica
    Dedicated October 2017
    JustAnotherJessica ·
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    We're expecting a dinner party vibe more than a dance party. We, too, have about 50 people total and are planning on letting adults be adults. We're providing the food, alcohol and atmosphere. Most adults can entertain themselves in those circumstances.

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  • SarahB
    Just Said Yes November 2017
    SarahB ·
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    The wedding is outside in the late afternoon/evening on a beach, with the reception being indoors just across the street.

    I am planning on scattering games like Jenga, Apples to Apples, card games, and other fun activities on the tables for guests to have fun with and mingle during pictures after the ceremony. As I'm just a little over a month away from the big day, I'm feeling all of the nerves build up and want to make sure everyone has a good time! It's making me start to overthink details I guess. I know the day is about my FH and I, but I still want everyone to have fun. Thank you for the input everyone!! Smiley smile

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  • pammat
    VIP October 2017
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    We're having some games for the non-dancers -- easy stuff like a jigsaw puzzle and operation and jenga and cornhole and croquet.

    Unlike those luckily enough to be socially adept, our crowd bonds over playing games rather than by making small talk.

    I certainly won't be dragging people over to the games, and I definitely won't be hurt if no one uses them, but if people want something to do they'll be there.

    (If they keep even one of the dozen or so teenagers off their phones for a hot second, that would be a bonus.)

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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
    Future Mrs M ·
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    I would let guests mingle. No need to find a void.

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