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Hazel
Just Said Yes August 2021

Alcohol necessary?

Hazel, on April 15, 2021 at 12:38 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12
We are having a light reception after our wedding with some appetizers and such, but nothing fancy. We are looking at ways to cut down on the price and I was thinking we might just not serve alcohol at the reception. We aren’t Mormon, but about half of our guests are LDS and don’t drink alcohol. Is alcohol an essential part of the reception or not? Let me know if any of you have faced this problem!

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Latest activity by Mrs. Coakley, on April 16, 2021 at 8:27 PM
  • mrswinteriscoming
    VIP December 2021
    mrswinteriscoming ·
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    There are no ‘essential’ parts of a reception other than what you want. In my crowd, not serving alcohol at the reception would be something that would be immediately picked up by our guests. In your situation, given the reception is ‘light’ and half your guests do not drink, I don’t think it will be noticed if you don’t serve alcohol.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Alcohol is never required. If your guests do not drink, there is no need to serve it.

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    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    Alcohol isn’t required, but but your guests who drink might take it as a bummer. But they can always go get drinks elsewhere after if they really need to. Alcohol does make people loosen up a bit so it helps with dancing imo, but if you don’t have many drinkers and they are used to dry events then it should be fine.
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  • Ava
    VIP May 2022
    Ava ·
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    No, alcohol is certainly not a necessity. And, since you are having a casual afternoon wedding,I don’t think it would even be missed by your guests.
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    Super July 2023
    Eniale ·
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    Alcohol is certainly not necessary.

    I am 100% in the "there's nothing wrong with dry weddings" camp. I see people say things like "if you're serving dinner..." "if it's a formal event..." "if it's in the evening..." No, nope, nah. The only "if" here is "if you want it."

    If only half your guest list drinks anyway, it is a logical cost cut. Anyone who needs alcohol can get it on their own dime and time.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I think this is a know your crowd topic and it sounds like you already know that. Serving alcohol is never necessary and since your crowd won't think twice about it, then I wouldn't waste the money.

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    Lady ·
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    Nope. alcohol is totally not a requirement and i think in your case (time of day, style of wedding, guest preferences) it makes a lot of sense to not serve alcohol.

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    Expert November 2021
    Sara ·
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    Sounds like you're having a casual afternoon wedding and a lot of your guests don't drink anyway. It would probably make sense to not have alcohol in your case

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  • Grace
    Super February 2022
    Grace ·
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    Alcohol is not at all necessary, especially if a large number of your guests don't drink. Perfectly reasonable and acceptable!
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    Savvy June 2021
    Angela ·
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    Perfectly okay to have a dry wedding. One way to have the best of both worlds is to buy some bottles of wine and keep the receipts. Return anything you don't open! Saves money and gives the option for light alcoholic consumption.
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  • Hazel
    Just Said Yes August 2021
    Hazel ·
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    Oh my gosh that is such a good idea thank you!!!
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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    For the type of wedding you’re having (light apps during a non-mealtime) I suppose no alcohol is acceptable. People may not stay long though. You could do beer and wine only? It’s often cheaper
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