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Erin
Savvy June 2022

Alcohol for daytime reception?

Erin, on July 13, 2021 at 1:20 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 18
Soooo I have been brainstorming, and my fiancé and I think we would like to have a daytime wedding; we haven’t set it yet, but we’re thinking maybe church ceremony at 10 or 11, followed by a sort of lunch-time reception. I know people generally expect alcohol at weddings, but I’m sort of struggling with what options we should give since it’s in the day, but not really brunchy enough to go all out with mimosas??


Maybe a few bear and wine selections, a champagne toast, and a signature drink for the bride and groom? I just really have no idea how much or what people like to drink at 1 p.m.. lol. I think a full bar would just be too much in terms of both money and the vibe we’re going for.

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Latest activity by Rosa, on July 22, 2023 at 11:49 PM
  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    It really depends on your crowd but I personally don’t know anyone who drinks during the daytime before 6pmish
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  • Erin
    Savvy June 2022
    Erin ·
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    That’s what I’m thinking! Honestly, all I could see myself having was maybe champagne for a toast or a glass of white wine, and even then, it’d have to be toward the end. However, I’m afraid that people will still be expecting alcohol? I don’t want to come off as cheap or rude for not providing alcohol, but I just honestly don’t know how many people would drink
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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
    Emilia ·
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    Hi ! I have a different perspective on this cause peuple do drink at 1pm around me Smiley laugh . But I think that champagne, then a glass of wine and some beer just in case would be OK !

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  • Lauren
    Expert July 2021
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    Day drinking is the best! I love a day wedding, that’s what I’m having, full open bar. Honestly it’s so nice. You get to have more of a wedding day instead of waiting all day to get started and you have an after party to keep going into the night.


    I guess it’s a regional thing (or an age thing?) but my friends and I, and a lot of people my age love day drinking. We tend to have a lot of mixed drinks, spiked seltzer’s, beer, but I think champagne for a toast and wine available is important too.
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  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
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    I agree that this is a know your crowd thing. Our crowd drinks at anytime of the day and at pretty much every event- weddings, funerals, kids birthday parties, etc. so for us the bar wasn’t negotiable.


    That being said, I think offering beer, wine and a signature cocktail should be enough for most of your guests either way.
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  • Ariel
    Devoted October 2021
    Ariel ·
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    Day drinking is very common in my circle. I think what you proposed is great. Beer wine and a signature drink is perfect.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Definitely a know your crowd! It’s totally ok just to provide champagne/mimosa bar. Or beer/wine if your crowd will enjoy that.
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  • C
    Super July 2020
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    I had a 12 pm reception and we had a champagne toast and beer and wine. We debated not having alcohol because very few of our guests are drinkers, let alone at noon but I’m happy we did. It was nice for us to have a few glasses of wine and for anyone else who did want something to be able to enjoy. No one was drunk, but it was a small crew.
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  • M
    Expert September 2021
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    Agreed that it'll depend on your crowd. I'd at least offer something (I wouldn't say no to a couple of drinks at an afternoon wedding) - beer and wine and maybe a signature drink or two sounds good! If you have a Total Wine store near you, they accept returns of unopened bottles and can even help you plan out what all to buy.

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  • Sara
    Dedicated September 2021
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    I think a mimosa bar and some sangria would be a lovely touch! I don't think you need the whole spread and variety of wines and beers for a daytime wedding. just an option or two would be plenty!

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    A wedding is a perfect excuse for day drinking. I cannot imagine anyone I know going to a wedding and thinking "oh I'm not going to drink yet because its before 5pm." People who don't drink much aren't going to drink much regardless and may use the earlier timeframe as a reason to refrain, but people who enjoy alcohol at parties are not going to let a slightly earlier time deter them. Before noon serve mimosas, bloody marys, or other typical "brunch" cocktails but after noon anything is fair game IMO.

    I would consider having some lighter "all day" style beers that are 4-5% alcohol or less, as opposed to double IPAs and other styles known to be stronger, and maybe a sangria as opposed to stronger cocktails. But I think beer and wine (maybe a hard cider or seltzer) are absolutely appropriate for a midday wedding. A shandy, lambic, or radler might be a good beer option as well (they tend to be really light and refreshing, and low alcohol, but are definitely more summery options as opposed to something I'd likely serve during the colder months).

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  • Sam
    Devoted October 2021
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    HI there!

    I personally think beer and wine would be perfect! Although, I may be biased because our reception is at 5pm and we are only having a beer and wine bar with a champagne toast for all our guests!

    Goodluck!

    Sam Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Super October 2021
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    Day drinking is very common in our circle. We were initially planning on a daytime wedding until we postponed and were going to have an open bar. I think it is more of know your crowd thing but you should provide something. Maybe beer, wine and champagne an/or a mimosa and Bloody Mary bar?

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    I think beer and wine is perfect for a lunchtime reception.

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    VIP August 2021
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    I think your guests will be happy with anything you provide really. Beer, wine, and a specialty cocktail is quite considerate. You don't have to go all out if it's not in your budget, or your style. Also, although I'm a day drinker, I would appreciate non-alcoholic, fun alternatives as well. One bride on WW arranged a smoothie bar. Others do a fruity punch. Yes, you could throw vodka in either, but some do pace their drinking when the day is long.

    I would second Kari above and go for lighter beers like shandy vs. an IPA, clear liquors over dark, and more white wine versus red (esp if it's an outside reception). My daytime preference would be a low-alcohol grapefruit beer called Stiegl Radler if available. As for a champagne toast, prosecco can be an affordable choice, but does a toast really have to be sparkling? Best wishes.

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
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    Wine, beer, and champagne sound perfect for a daytime reception in my opinion.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    That is something you have to ask your guests specifically: parents, siblings, friends, whomever is attending that you are close to.


    Based on the plethora of posts on WW, those would have you believe that you are a bad host if you don’t have a full bar available round the clock even if none of them drink alcohol during morning or midday at any other time, wedding or not. Do what works for you and your guests and never cave to pressure from anyone online or irl to do anything you are not comfortable with or can’t afford.
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  • R
    Just Said Yes August 2023
    Rosa ·
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    Alcohol time ours wedding day?

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