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NerdLove
Dedicated October 2016

Alcohol at an afternoon wedding?

NerdLove, on January 11, 2016 at 10:28 AM Posted in Planning 0 18

Our wedding is at 12 with a luncheon. Is it really necessary to have alcohol at all? It would add another 700 to 1000 to our bill, and neither me nor my fiance drink much anyway. So can we skip this expense? Thoughts?

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Latest activity by Courtney CtoS, on January 11, 2016 at 11:27 AM
  • Becoming a Mrs
    Master July 2016
    Becoming a Mrs ·
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    Could you do just wine or mimosas or something?

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  • MrsLaurenET
    Master September 2016
    MrsLaurenET ·
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    See if you can just do beer and wine. Even though you don't drink much I'm sure your guests would appreciate being able to have a drink and celebrate!

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  • NerdLove
    Dedicated October 2016
    NerdLove ·
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    Those are the prices for just beer or wine and beer >_<

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  • WoW
    Devoted November 2015
    WoW ·
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    Yes, I would think still to server a wine/beer even for an afternoon wedding.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Yes. It is. Wine and beer is fine.

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  • MNBride
    Master June 2017
    MNBride ·
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    Its not NESSESARY per say, still would be appreciated by your guests.

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  • Princess Consuela
    Master November 2015
    Princess Consuela ·
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    Do beer and wine. Just cause it's lunch doesn't mean people don't want alcohol!

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  • JumpinTheBroom
    Devoted March 2016
    JumpinTheBroom ·
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    Mimosas or sangria, maybe?

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  • Anastasia
    Devoted April 2016
    Anastasia ·
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    Unless all of your family and all of his family are 100% non-drinkers, whether by way of religion or cultural practice, be kind and provide wine and/or beer for your guests. The reception is not for you--it is to thank the people in your life for attending your wedding. You may not want a glass of wine, but they might.

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  • Dara
    Devoted September 2017
    Dara ·
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    It depends on your culture and your guests .... If they drink then just have beer and wine.

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  • Kira
    Savvy June 2017
    Kira ·
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    If the wedding is at noon, I don't see why you couldn't just have punch and lemonade and have the guests BYOB. Especially if you two aren't really drinkers. An extra $1,000 for the honeymoon sounds splendid to me!

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  • SummerS
    Master January 2016
    SummerS ·
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    Plenty of people drink in the early afternoon...mimosas, bloody mary's, anything really...our ceremony starts at 11:30am and we're having a full open bar during our cocktail hour and reception. If you're concerned with budget, do beer and wine only and maybe add champagne if it's not included in the package.

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  • NerdLove
    Dedicated October 2016
    NerdLove ·
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    Thanks, guys. You've given me a lot to think about. Appreciate it!

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
    Jacqui76 ·
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    My reception is at that time and we're having sangria and beer, with a champagne toast.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    No BYOB.

    Just as a point of reference, I have never seen a dry wedding (I've actually only seen 2 or 3 cash bar weddings) in all my years of doing this. Plenty of limited bars, but zero dry ones.

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  • Courtney CtoS
    VIP August 2016
    Courtney CtoS ·
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    Serve beer and wine. Since it is just lunch people likely won't drink as much but they should be given the choice

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