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Do you have any ideas on whether you want an indoor or out door wedding?

No help from me because I'm still very indecisive with my wedding planning. I would say tackle one thing at once tho. Also once you figure out the venue and colors/theme you're wanting everything else will be easier.


And breatheeeee it'll be okay.

I am very indecisive normally, but for my wedding I knew exactly what I wanted. Probably because I dreamed of my wedding since I was a little girl. The first three things I would do if you haven't already is create a budget and guest list and select a venue. Once you have a venue selected I would consider your menu. We picked a place that the venue catered and they gave us a list of options to choose from. I picked food I knew my husband and I both liked. I also picked things that were pretty simple because I'm a picky eater and I knew neither of our families really like fancy food. I changed wedding dresses 3 times so I'm not much help with that. As for bridesmaids dresses, I wanted all of my girls in the same dress. Looking back on it, it would have been easier to pick a store for them to get their dress at and tell them the color and length and then let them decide the style. Since you are indecisive it might be easier to let them pick the style of their dress if you are okay with them all being in the same color, but different style. If you are having a tough time deciding on things your fiance should be able to help you decide. If not then maybe one of your bridesmaids might be able to help you. Good luck!!

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If you're naturally indecisive (like I am) there's really no way to change that. Especially on a big day like your wedding. I'm having a hard time deciding on a venue because none are knocking are socks off/within our budget. But I do think once the venue is booked, everything else will be easier. Definitely get advice from your fiancé and friends/family - that should make it a bit easier! Don't let it overwhelm you too much, have fun with it! I like writing things down, comparing perks of venues or types of venues/what they offer and then crossing out what I'm not going for.

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View Quoted Comment I think I wanna do outdoor because it'll be in summer plus I want it to be like a backyard BBQ very laid back

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See then you aren't too indecisive. You have an idea to go from. Just take a deep breath and everything will be fine.

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If you can take your time researching then maybe just from seeing all the things you like and finding ways to incorporate or blend it might work so that you don't necessarily have to make just one choice

This is called decision fatigue. It happened to me too! Find a bridesmaid or hire a planner and they can help you ! If you’re comfortable asking your mom or a relative, they might enjoy feeling helpful

For me I knew what I didn't want. Which means I had to figure out what I wanted and how I wanted it to look. Start thinking about weddings you've been to and take pieces to incorporate into your wedding

Congratulations Anastasia!
I think is bride overthink a lot of stuff sometimes. Something that works for me not just during planning but in general life is following my gut. My instincts never lie to me. For the wedding if you’re a person that can visualize things find yourself thinking if you can see your wedding with or without that? Reach deep into what you feel or how something makes you feel. I can’t describe what I felt when I found my venue but I knew it was the one without an actual visit to the location yet. So just follow your gut, listen to your emotions and make a decision based on what you visualize your day to be like. Of course within reason budget because Pinterest weddings are not always very realistic.

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I am indecisive as well! Try to get the biggest things (venue, dress, colors) out of the way first, but tackle them one at a time!