My fiance has picked five people for his side. I have picked four so far, but I would like one more so that we are even. I have a friend "Jane" that I have known for many years and she is also really good friends with my best friend who is my maid of honor. But Jane isn't the most reliable so I am worried if I can count on her to be a bridesmaid. I have another friend "Jake" that I have also known for many years and I am really close to. I would much prefer him over Jane, but he is currently looking to buy a house and plans on proposing to his girlfriend soon. I am worried he will feel obligated to say yes, but might not have the means to actually be in the wedding. I also don't know how his girlfriend soon to be fiancee would feel about him being in my wedding. Our wedding is about two hours from where all of our guests live so either one would most likely need to get a hotel for the night before the wedding and the night of the wedding unless they want to travel back home after the rehearsal. They would also need to purchase their attire for the wedding. If I went with Jane, she would need to pay for her own hair and makeup if she choose to have it professionally done as it is optional. Any advice?