Adult son as a ring bearer?

I think that would be fine ... obviously ask if he (your son) wants to.. if not you can always have him as a groomsman..

Do what makes you happy, as long your son is ok with it. My son will be 15 when we get married (FH will be his stepdad), and I am having him walk me down the aisle with my mom. He could also be a groomsman, or even a bridesman!

If he’s fine with it, go for it.

View Quoted Comment My dad passed away a few years ago so I was thinking of having my mom walk me down the isle.... I love my son sooo much and we are really close! I do feel that it is important for him to be a part of this big day. A brides man is not a bad idea! Thank you for your input....Much appreciated

View Quoted Comment Thank you.

I think it's absolutely acceptable for him to be your ring berror as long as he accepts the role you could have him proceed down with the groomsmen instead of as a traditional ring berror so as to not make him feel awkward

Great idea! I guess I sort of asked...but now I feel like I may have been more assigning???? I think I may ask him, what place he’d rather take....ring bearer or bides-man! This brides-man thing is as new to me as having an older ring bearer. I’ll have to sleep on this! Thank you.

View Quoted Comment Great idea! I had not thought of that! Thank you! 😊

View Quoted Comment I'm sure he will just be happy to share in the day with you both

My almost 21 year old niece will be my flower girl. There is no rule saying they bridal party cannot be older. I say go for it.