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ViciousHamster
Devoted September 2017

Additional boutonnieres & corsages-- Are they necessary?

ViciousHamster, on March 9, 2017 at 2:53 PM Posted in Planning 0 20

I'm curious to know how many of you are getting corsages and boutonnieres for the parents of the bride and groom. I'm considering skipping it, but I'd like to know how big of a deal it really is to not get your parents a boutonniere/corsage. I'll do it if I have to, just thought it might be an unnecessary cost.

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Latest activity by Nicole, on March 9, 2017 at 4:20 PM
  • Susan
    Super December 2017
    Susan ·
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    I'm skipping it

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  • FutureMrsQ2017
    VIP October 2017
    FutureMrsQ2017 ·
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    I'm doing it. They didn't end up being that expensive for us and I figured it would be worth it to make family members feel special. We ordered for parents and grandparents.

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  • MMB
    Master January 2017
    MMB ·
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    They're totally optional. We did them for parents and grandparents because they weren't that expensive.

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    Skipping it, even though it's only $20 for a corsage, and $8 for bouts. Someone's advice keeps ringing in my ear: save where you can, save where you can.

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  • Sunshine
    VIP September 2017
    Sunshine ·
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    We are doing it. Simply because it was cheap and I know my mom and grandmother, especially, would appreciate it. We are only doing corsages for my mom, FH mom, my grandma. Only doing bouts for FH, my dad, FH dad, and my grandpa. Easy peas.

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  • Celia Milton
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    I'd skip favors before I'd skip this....it's not unnecessary. It's a tiny show of honor for them.

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  • MDbride
    Dedicated March 2017
    MDbride ·
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    I ordered mine from Costco! The reviews are really good and you can customize the order to fit your needs! Prices are pretty good too.

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  • Danielle
    VIP December 2017
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    I'd skip it because flowers aren't that much of a priority for us, but I *know* not having one would give my parents an excuse to piss and moan (which they'll most likely do anyway, but an ounce of prevention...). The extra $30 would be worth it.

    I wondering...do you need to get boutonnieres for readers?

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  • J. Clo
    Master May 2018
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    Totally doing it to honor them.

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  • Greenleaf
    Devoted July 2017
    Greenleaf ·
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    We're not doing boutonnieres or corsages for anyone... it just seems like a waste to buy something that pretty much everyone will toss right after the wedding.

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  • Brooke
    Super January 2018
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    I would honestly rather skip having favors then skipping bouts and corsages. Corsages and bouts for parents and grandparents are given to honor them. We are using all fake flowers so it is something they can keep. And with how sentimental our parents and grandparents are, I know they won't be wasted and thrown in the trash

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    Necessary? No. But many wedding related items aren't.

    We did bunches of them, they didn't cost a lot but they sure seemed to mean a lot to the recipients.

    Greenleaf--tons of stuff will get tossed Smiley smile

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  • Rebecca
    Expert May 2017
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    Parents and grandparents here. $10 bouts $20 corsages

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  • Kia9
    Super August 2017
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    Right now we are doing corsages for the moms. Both sets of dads kind of side-eyed us about paying for boutonnieres, and even though my mom is on the side-eye squad, FH's mom LOVES that kind of stuff so he wants to do it.

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  • BohoRN2017
    Expert November 2017
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    We will be doing, it's not expensive at all. We don't have a bridal party so just doing parents, grandparents, and siblings isn't a major cost. It's a nice gesture towards those closest to us.

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  • Midwest May
    VIP May 2016
    Midwest May ·
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    As MOG, honestly, I would have been hurt to think I wasn't important enough to even get a corsage.

    Plus, going totally traditional with costs, we (groom's famiIy) paid for all the body flowers other than the bridesmaid's bouquets, so I got to make sure there were plenty of flowers for everyone.

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  • Jenna
    Super November 2017
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    I would talk with the parents. Mine were VERY upset when I considered skipping this.

    To me it is not a deal but to them it was a HUGE deal.

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  • @brd2be
    Expert April 2018
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    I'm not doing them, for anyone. The guys (in my wedding atleast) don't care about flowers and I just think its a waste of $. I get how some people find them sentimental though.

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
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    It was in the budget so we did it.

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  • Nicole
    Super September 2017
    Nicole ·
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    Ask them if they'd like one. My dad likes that stuff, my mom hates corsages so I'm not getting her one!

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