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Molly
VIP September 2020

Adding to your family!

Molly, on October 1, 2020 at 12:38 PM

Posted in Married Life 68

Are you planning on adding to your family after your wedding? Or if you have already gotten married have you started trying to add to your family? (Fur babies count too!) Are you going to wait a while? My husband is ready to start trying to conceive! I have been ready for a while, but I wanted to be...

Are you planning on adding to your family after your wedding? Or if you have already gotten married have you started trying to add to your family? (Fur babies count too!) Are you going to wait a while?

My husband is ready to start trying to conceive! I have been ready for a while, but I wanted to be married first. We are so excited to be trying for a baby, but we are also terrified! Having a tiny human that is half of me and half of my very best friend would be amazing! On the other hand it is scary to think about miscarriage and infertility. As of right now I have gotten my BC removed and if it happens it happens!

What are you and you significant others plans to add to your family, if you want to add to your family?

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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    I haven't been married for very long but my husband and I have been living together for a long time before marriage and the only thing that has changed has been my last name. I am an over worrier too lol. I think your safe Smiley smile

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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    Yes! My husbands step mom really took over when he was 7 with his dad, so that inspired us to help kids
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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    That's really great!

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
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    Aww thank you!! They are such a goofy breed LOL I’m pretty much obsessed with him 😍
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  • VIP August 2020
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    I haven't been married for that long either but we've also lived together for a while and...it's the same, aexcept now there's less wedding stress.
    We postponed our reception to next July and I'm planning to have my IUD taken out* immediately afterward so I can still wear my dress/drink/not be full of pregnancy hormones during it. If we have to postpone again, I'll still have the IUD removed next summer and hopefully bring a fetus or baby to the reception whenever it happens.

    *The original plan was to have it removed when it expired, but that's not until November 2022, which now seems really far away.
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  • Rebecca
    Super January 2020
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    We're going to start trying July 2021!! We're ready now and both of us are having extreme baby fever lol but we want to save up more money.

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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    That's a good idea. Good luck!

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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
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    Hi Molly !
    We are going to start trying the night of. I happen to be ovulating during that week so we’re hoping for some luck and a baby girl.
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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
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    I hope it works out for you! That would be awesome!
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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
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    Wishing you the same!


    How many children do you guys want to have.
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  • Kelsey
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    We have been married for less than 3 weeks. We are already trying. I ordered a gift for my husband when we do get pregnant off etsy so I'm set. My period is a little wacky due to coming off birth control. But we wanted a baby since the summer started but I wanted us to be married first! Good luck!
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    Savvy October 2020
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    I had a less than 4% chance of fertility due to medical issues..... Haha yeah, our wedding date is October 24, 2020 and here I am 17 weeks pregnant with our little squish. We’re very excited though!!!!! Thankfully, my dress is flowy and I’m not showing at all.
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    Married in September and if it happens, it happens now lol 🍼 If we don’t have a positive test by Dec, we will try harder!
    Best wishes!
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    As I've mentioned before, I suffered a miscarriage in July.

    Honestly, it was awful. I'm in therapy.

    But I did manage to start taking prenatals again, a few weeks ago, and we're, uh, being a little lax about bc.

    Healing has been hard, because both of us were out of work until 2 weeks ago, and I'm only just starting to train to work for my dad's company. (I love my dad. ...I miss my old jobs.) So, while there was a lot of time to work through feelings and rest, there also wasn't a whole lot to distract/offer hope/give security.

    My doc was actually kind of surprised, because my cycle kicked back in *super* fast... which was LESS THAN PLEASANT physically and emotionally... but yeah. I really want a baby. I'm also really, really, REALLY scared.

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  • Molly
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how it felt. I would imagine it would be incredibly hard to get back to normal life and trying again. I hope it works out for you! Smiley heart

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  • Molly
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    Same here Smiley xd You can never be to prepared! I have his gift hiding in my nightstand waiting to be used lol. Thanks and good luck to you too!

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  • Molly
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    Thanks! We want 2 and boy then a girl.

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  • Molly
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    Oh my gosh! Congratulations! That is amazing!

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  • Molly
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    That's about what we are doing as well. Good luck!

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  • Annika
    Expert November 2020
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    I love kids, however I do not want any of my own. My FH doesn't want any either. His siblings are 11 and 9 though so we are kinda like the "cool aunt/uncle" trope for them lol! I have always said I never wanted kids (im deathly afraid of pregnancy and childbirth) and EVERYONE says "oh you'll change your mind when you find the right guy/when you get older/it happens to every woman its how life goes etc etc etc. I'm only 20 so honestly if I do change my mind, (yeah right!) then I still have time. Adoption is always an option for me too, I would love to be able to give a safe and happy home to someone whos already on this earth! My FH and I definitely want a fur baby or two though! We have unofficially adopted his parents doggos and love them so much lol

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