Adding to Bridal Party?

Hey! I'm having the same sort of issue. My bridal party is made up of only sorority sisters, and the groomsmen are all fraternity brothers. Since we decided on our group, people have been popping up and offering to help out wherever they can, and we're both feeling a little guilty about not asking them. We've decided that while they're not actually in the bridal party, we still want to honor those people. So we decided to pretty much invite them to everything that we would invite our regular party to, and rather than adding them on as B list Bridesmaids or whatever, we are going to invite them to the rehearsal dinner and give them a special gift. I've realized through all of this that there are so many special and important people in your life. That doesn't mean that every single one of them needs to stand beside you on your wedding day. Let that guilt go, and make them feel special in a different way. Titles aren't necessary.

Just ask. They can say no.

@Maria I think I'm feeling guilty because I always wanted them to be in the bridal party but my FH and I didn't want it to get too big. Now I want to put them in but the timing is weird. I hear what you're saying though.

You're past the "too big" if your FH added 10 groomsmen lol. It's fine to ask them

@Kourtney Haha I fed hear what you’re saying. I’m still in shock about how groomsmen he has. D you think 4 months is ok for my potential bridesmaids to get dresses and stuff? I’m trying not to be inconvient for them.

I think it would probably be enough time, but I'd also probably order sooner rather than later since holiday shipping season is here, just to make sure they come in early enough for alterations!

Maybe a UO but I wouldn't ask the girls at this point. It will seem like an afterthought. You can invite them to get ready with you if you want but asking them to be bridesmaids is a little late now.