Adding a Co moh and in need of advice

To me the bridesmaids arts the co mob and there to pick up any slack if needed. If anything I would have two maids of honors but how looping have they been the bridal party. Might seem awkward if you add her now.

View Quoted Comment Thanks Kristen! I was wondering if it would be awkward. Does it make any difference considering she has always been in my wedding party? I just wanted to make her Co MOH

How long have the titles been delegated? My only sister ofcourse is my Maid of Honor but I also have two great friends whom are like sisters to me as well....they all have been there in a special way. So I made the other two Bridesmaids/ "honorary maids of honor ". It allows me to show them how special they are without taking anything away from my wonderful big sis💕. Also my sister lives out of town so have someone here to also help with tasks so great. If you explain it no one should take offense

I plan on having my 2 best friends both be co MOH in my wedding and they're both fine with it.

View Quoted Comment You could do what you want but how long has the wedding party been picked? I ask because I think one of my friend wedding I was probably just a little bit more involved than the maid of honor but I think it's at the last minute she made me call maid of honor that would have given some red flag to the other maid of honor of why all the sudden I was being Co-op maid of honor you know? I think for your maid of honor it will definitely raise some questions. At the end of the day it's really just the title so maybe if you want to thank her a little bit more maybe give her a nicer thank you gift separately and just take her aside and tell her that even appreciate how much he has been so helpful in regards to your upcoming wedding.

I asked a cousin to be a Co MOH when my best friend was being uninvolved too. And there’s no hard feelings both ways. I say put the people you need in your corner and don’t care what others think.

I had two at my wedding and I don't think it takes away from their special roles

I am having a maid of honor and a matron of honor - I have seen several weddings with two or more maids of honor. I think it's totally fine!

View Quoted Comment Thanks for the reply! I have had a really long engagement, just over 3 years so far. I asked my best friend to be my MOH immediately of course lol. My other friends shortly afterward. My best friend also moved 3 hours away and has had a child in that time so it has definitely taken more of her time as it should. But over those years I've gotten really close to my childhood BFF

View Quoted Comment I think you will be fine if you decide to make her a maid or honorary maid. At the end of the day it's your wedding and they are their to see you through it and make you happy. My girls have been so supportive I get emotional every time I think about it....and that's the way it should be. This is a time when everyone should come together in love because that's what it's all about. I say bump your bestie up to an Honorary Maid. But even without the title I know she will be there to pick up the slack no matter what.

Another bestie is also my matron and they are getting the job done together because they all love me and support me.... I also have other friends whom I consider sisters as bridesmaids...🤷🏾‍♀️ so hey