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Accommodations for bridal party

Anjelica, on June 29, 2019 at 10:13 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

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SO I’m from New Orleans, but live in Houston. I have bridesmaids that live here and there. I was considering getting a big Airbnb for the night before the wedding to have time with the girls! My FH was planning on doing the same with his groomsmen, all of which are from out of town. My only concern is that most of them are bringing their significant others, none of which are in the wedding party. They would not be staying at either Airbnb. Would it be inconsiderate to try to plan it that way? What is a good solution?

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Latest activity by Cassi, on July 1, 2019 at 2:43 PM

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Becca · on June 29, 2019 at 10:20 PM
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I'm assuming they would probably be getting a hotel room the night of the wedding right? Maybe have them book it for the night before as well and have their significant other stay at the hotel the night before. I'm staying at an Airbnb the night before as well. 5 of the 7 bridesmaids will be with me that night and their significant others will probably be at the hotel the night before
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Anjelica · on June 29, 2019 at 10:21 PM
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Thanks for the insight!
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CDickman · on June 29, 2019 at 10:34 PM
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I would leave it as optional. My fiancé and I are getting a air B and B the night before and the night of wedding. I get nervous easy so I know the night before he can keep me calm.
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Caytlyn · on June 30, 2019 at 8:00 AM
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I think it's a nice option, but I definitely wouldn't expect my friends to come from out of town and leave their SO at a hotel alone. The local bridal party members might not mind though.
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Anjelica · on June 30, 2019 at 9:21 AM
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Thank you!
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Beth · on June 30, 2019 at 9:28 AM
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I agree with Caytlyn. Especially if the SOs don’t know people other than the bridal party.
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MrsD · on July 1, 2019 at 12:18 PM
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I've been a bridesmaids before that had to fly in with my SO, and I opted to not stay overnight with the bride. I came over & hung out & all that, but then slept at the hotel with my fiance.
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Cassi · on July 1, 2019 at 2:43 PM
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This is tough... We booked a cabin for our wedding party (layouts below). Because our wedding party most of them have plus ones they are all staying in the persons room (I.e MOH and her husband and their child will stay in cabin with us in room allocated for MOH). We were slightly nervous because day before and day of there will be a lot of things going on where we section off and significant others aren't in either party so may get a little awkward but we are doing our best to include everyone. So pretty much for us everyone in our wedding party and their plus ones get a free stay for a week. We knew they were spending a lot to be there as is (its a destination wedding and most people are taking a bit of time off work/school to be there) so this was our treat to them.
This is where most of the families are stayingFH and I's personal floor
Where the single/ non families will be
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