Absent dad

My dad and I have never really been close. I would mainly only go to visit him out of state o my to see my other younger siblings. Since getting engaged last summer, him and the FH got into an argument because father had some delusional idea that he was supposed to ask him first and father tried to play the tough protective father all of a sudden. Mind you he has never really taken an interest in ever trying to really get to know FH in the 5 years we dated before getting engaged even tho he lived 5 min from FH ‘s family who invited me over every time we were in town and made a point to make me feel included. Father would get upset if FH would come over too much (we would mostly be playing with my toddler brother who adored him). Since getting engaged ( a year in now) he has not mentioned the wedding whatsoever. He surprisingly offered to pay the deposit for the venue then when we changed venues he never bothered to even look at the info I sent him about it (5x) and never mentioned it afterwards. He currently lives in CA, we’re still in PA where he and his wife moved from and when they came for Christmas the first time seeing us after getting engaged they never bothered to ask to see the ring or ask any details about the wedding. I’m at the point where I don’t even want him involved. Him walking me down the isle is a slim to none chance that I want him to do that and the father-daughter dance has always been a subject of anxiety because I would be so uncomfortable. Any advice moving forward???