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a successful, but emotional day.

Anna, on May 9, 2019 at 6:37 PM

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I found my dress today. Forgive my black bra and tan lines, the bodice is too big in the front and the back, but I can visualize the finished results..and I will love it once it's altered to fit. It will be two years August, since I lost my Mama. I went alone today because my best friends live out...
I found my dress today. Forgive my black bra and tan lines, the bodice is too big in the front and the back, but I can visualize the finished results..and I will love it once it's altered to fit.

It will be two years August, since I lost my Mama. I went alone today because my best friends live out of state.
I tried on three dresses and when I got each one on three of the consultants would gather and offer opinions. I only had one consultant, but the other two told me they felt drawn to come over.

I was having a hard time deciding between two dresses, so when I put this one on they decided to "jack me up. "

As soon as they did, I felt a sense of peace come over me and I knew my mama was there because I felt her presence. And I knew this was the one.

Just then all three of the consultants did like a little gasp and they each said did you feel that chill? So, I started to cry...my thoughts were confirmed. They each explained that they had a head to toe chill all of a sudden. I had felt it too. Kind of like a breeze out of nowhere.

Not sure if any one else believes in the afterlife, but I do.
I then explained about losing my Mama and how her birthday falls on Mother's day this year. And how much she would have loved seeing me trying on dresses.

Three complete strangers stood and cried with me. It made me feel less alone. It was truly a special moment.

My budget from my Fiancee was $1,200.
This dress was $1,300 I knew he would be ok with that, so I decided to look for a veil and belt somewhere else, although I loved them as a complete look.

I got to the register and much to my surprise was informed that this dress had just been marked down to $800 and I could get the dress, veil and belt for $1,200.
Looks like I was in the right place at the right time 👰❤😘




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156 Comments

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    Anna ·
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    Thank you so much!
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sad for you too.
    Your Dad will definitely be walking you down the aisle, although you can't see him, he will be with you!

    I like to think that my Mama will be sitting on a white fluffy cloud with my grandparents and all of my beloved pets in Heaven...watching me marry the love of my life❤

    Thank you for your kind words. They mean alot to me!
    Hugs to you as well!
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  • Talia
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    Very Pretty!!

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  • Dita
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    Dita ·
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    Oh my goodness, what a beautiful dress! Can already tell you’re going to look stunning. And such a beautiful story. I’m sorry to hear about your mom, but it sounds like you had a truly special and moving experience. I was in tears reading it. It all worked out in such a beautiful way and I’m so happy for you. Congratulations on finding your dress AND accessories, everything happens for a reason! Will have you in my thoughts this Mother’s Day. ❤️
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  • Jane
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    Such à tragic sweet tale. You look stunning
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    Anna ·
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    Thank you so much!
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    Anna ·
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    Thank you Dita!
    I really appreciate your kind message more than you will ever know!❤
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    Anna ·
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    Thank you Jane!
    I really appreciate that ❤
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  • Maria
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    Such a touching story and that dress is gorgeous on you! Smiley heart Smiley cry I know it probably wasn't the dress shopping experience you dreamed of, but it sounds so special - I'm sure the consultants will never forget it! I'm sorry for your loss but it's good to hear that you still feel connected to your mom.

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    Anna ·
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    Thank you Maria!
    It was special. I should have known that my Mama would have not missed that day...it was a wonderful experience and I'll never forget it ❤
    Thanks so much for your kind words! They truly meant alot to meSmiley smile
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  • Jessica
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    Congratulations! And you look great. Our loved ones are always with us. The pain is not the same, but getting married without my grandmother has been pretty hard for me. I will carry a charm on my bouquet for her. You should get one for your mother. Xoxox.
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    Anna ·
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    Thank you Jessica!
    Of course the pain is the same , a broken heart ...is a broken heart.
    I'm so sorry for your loss!
    A charm is a great idea! She would love that ❤
    Where did you get yours?
    Thank you for mentioning it to me! Smiley winking
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  • Jessica
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    I got mine from David's bridal. They have them on Amazon for the same price.
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    Ty so much! ❤
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  • Allison
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    What an amazing experience. This was truly meant to be. Congratulations to you. I’m so happy for you!
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  • Sylvia
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    Beautiful expression of love. I am sure your mom is happy for you.
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    Thank you Allison!
    I too, believe it was meant to be. Thanks for taking the time to comment. It really means alot to me Smiley smile
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    Ty Sylvia!
    Absolutely! She has to be thrilled and is telling everyone in Heaven❤
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  • Sylvia
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    Yw Anna! I believe we are indeed surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses. Be happy my dear. Be happy!
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    Ty Sylvia!
    That's so nice of you to say. I wish you happiness as well! ❤
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    Just a small, sincere, thank you to each and everyone that has reached out to me!
    You may think it's a small thing, but your words of kindness have meant more to me than each of you could ever know.
    It's scary enough to try on clothes in front of friends and/or family...but going alone and putting your trust in someone who doesn't know you is quite intimidating. We all have our issues with body image, and insecurities and we trust those who know us to guide us. I just hope and pray that my fiancee loves the dress ...each one of you that has offered encouragement has been a true blessing to me, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart!
    Congratulations to all of you! ❤❤❤🙋😘
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